Black History Month, 2013

FEBRUARY, 2013

BLACK HISTORY MONTH

CELEBRATE, HONOR, REMEMBER,

E. LYNN HARRIS

June 20, 1955-July 23, 2009

Author who opened eyes and minds to contemporary Black gay life

Novels:

Invisible Life (1991)

Just As I Am (1995)

And This Too Shall Pass (1997)

If This World Were Mine (1998)

Abide With Me (1999)

Not A Day Goes By (2000)

Any Way The Wind Blows (2002)

A Love Of My Own (2003)

I Say A Little Prayer (2006)

Just Too Good To Be True (2008)

Basketball Jones (2009)

Mama Dearest (Posthumously published)

In My Father's House (Posthumously published)

Autobiography:

What Becomes Of The Brokenhearted-A Memoir (2003)

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

Biracial Couples and Friends Resource

The National Association of Black and White Men Together (NABWMT) is an gay men's organization seeking to promote harmony between men of both races, regardless of the type of relationship. The group hopes to bring men to a greater understanding of each other no matter if they are friends, lovers or just concerned gay men who are trying to reach out to create unity.

The group's mission statement reads: "The NABWMT is committed to fostering supportive environments wherein cultural and racial barriers can be overcome."

What makes up the NABWMT? 
"The NABWMT is a collective nationwide network of affiliated and developing chapters in over 30 cities that identify themselves as Black and White Men Together (BWMT), Men of All Colors Together (MACT) or People of All Colors Together (PACT) in keeping with the cultural dynamics of their respective areas.

The national convention: 33rd Annual Convention, Columbus, Ohio, July 9 - 13, 2013
Theme: Still Our Purpose, Still Our Organization, Still Our Pride

Website: http://www.nabwmt.org

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

Actor Colin Black Kisses a white man's cock

Naked Camping Trip Notes

As I posted here last Thursday, August 30, 2012, my boyfriend and I were off on a nakation the following morning. A camping trip to a nude resort in the mountains of West Virginia, about a two-and-a-half hour drive from our home. It was the first time either one of us had visited this location and our first camping experience.


First, let me start by saying we were the only biracial couple onsite. That alone got us second and third looks from our fellow campers. Now, it could be possible that they stares were because of my BF's cock: he's pretty well endowed and it does swing gracefully when he walks about. Maybe it was penis envy of him and jealousy of what I'm able to enjoy. We're still trying to figure that one out.


Don't misunderstand me, the folks there were friendly. It was just the fact that men stared at us whenever we walked past. It was a little strange. Friday night, BF was the only black man at the resort. A black couple from Ohio came on Saturday; another black couple from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania (we hung out with them) arrived Saturday evening. There was a hispanic/latino couple there from Baltimore, Maryland. That was it for the men of color population.

The property, Roseland Resort and Campgrounds, was well kept and landscaped. The freedom to roam at will, without having to wear clothes, was refreshing. For hygiene reasons, we did have to dress for the restaurants. The amenities included pool (pictured below) hiking and biking trails, sun deck, observation deck, game room, hot tub, exercise room and social hall. There are a gift shop and convenience store on campus.

There are cabins and guest rooms available. We used a tent (the economy plan). We aren't experienced campers so that was interesting. We both agree that if we return, a cabin or guest room is going to be the way to go. Neither of us are the "rugged, rough-it" types. A bed is much more pleasant than a sleeping bag and air mattress (even when snuggling)! 

I couldn't get used to the smell of insect repellent, which was strongly recommended. The residual scent didn't seem to bother my boyfriend. Neither one of us are accustomed to the variety of bugs and crawling creatures that favor the outdoors. I guess it's whatever a man is familiar. Sometimes, the nights seemed too quiet.

The facility does offer socials at night during the camping season (May through Labor Day). Friday night's theme was Black Out dance. Saturday, it was a Hodown and Sunday night: Glow. The events were fun although the Hodown wasn't particularly appealing, music-wise. The themed parties were posted on their website in advance so that one was no surprise for us.

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked



I'm A Social Nudist

I am a social nudist. Basically, this means that I am a man who enjoys living life engaging in activities free from clothes: naked. That's the simplistic definition or the bottom line. Unfortunately, like most things in life, it's all more complex than what it appears on the surface. Without getting too technical and confusing, I'll keep it as brief as possible while trying to give you a clear idea of what I'm about.

Most people understand the labels naturist and nudist to be the same. The reality is that the definitions and opinions are as diverse as the numbers of people identifying as such. Personally, I think of nudists as those who view nudity as a social interaction. Nudism is to be experienced with family or friends at home, at private or public events (including athletics) and at nude beaches/resorts or clothing-optional facilities. Naturists, on the other hand, are those who view nudity as a way of life, a healthy lifestyle, living clothes-free and embracing the concept of being nude, which is perfectly natural, and the rest of nature. Nudism is a way of living (naked) whereas naturism is a practical philosophy (lifestyle) and worldview.

That;s the theoretical version. As for me (and I am not alone),  I'm much less a linguist and by no means a purist. I use naturism/nudism and naturist/nudist interchangeably and consider myself both. One term doesn't appeal to me over the other; however, I acknowledge the fact that others do value the difference and I respect their preference. Once again, like everything else in life, it's all about perspective and how an individual chooses to self-identify.

I am a social naturist/nudist. I'd rather be nude in the company of others, no matter if they're clothed (textile) or naked. I'm human and most humans are social creatures, right? Naturists are no different. Even though I'm naked when home alone, I prefer nudity in a group or social environment, as do most nudists. Optimally, my communal situation is with my gay nudist brothers; however, I'm just as comfortable sharing my nakedness in a mixed gender activity. People are, after all, most relaxed when in the midst of others they perceive most like themselves; in my case, same gender loving men. But what's important to me is the freedom to be nude. Therefore, I'll welcome any opportunity that's presented, gay or heterosexual.

My own comfort level in any type of social setting is also determined by the heritage diversity of the folks within the crowd. I feel better being in a group with a variety of ethnicities and races. I like to look around and see the bodies and faces that reflect all of mankind, not just a select few. I was raised in a multiracial family and in a pluricultural neighborhood. The majority of my life experiences have been in the company of those who's skin tone is unlike my own. Personally, I feel discomfort when I find myself in an exclusively white-people-only situation. That's just not for me.

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked