When my boyfriend and I first met and became friends, we were both closeted nudists. I started going to nudists beaches, alone and secretly, for three years before we met. My boyfriend-to-be only for a year (also by himself and on the sly). Funny, while we were "just friends" (for all of six months), we never shared with each other this aspect of our lives. We just didn't know how the other would react to this news.
One weekend afternoon in early spring, we were having lunch together and talking about beach trips for the upcoming summer. Feeling somewhat bold, I casually suggested Gunnison Beach in New Jersey (see May 24, 2012 post). My future boyfriend, without batting an eye, asked if that was the clothing optional beach with a gay section. A little amazed at his knowledge, I said yes, it was. He agreed to go without further comment.
This was to be a one-day excursion, so aside from discussing details about logistics, neither one of us made mention of the nudity aspect. As we were still in the "just friends" phase, until this trip, we'd never seen each other shirtless, much less naked. It wasn't until he was driving us to the beach on the actual date that I mentioned the fact that I'd probably be nude once we arrived. He replied that was cool and he'd do the same. For the rest of the drive, that was all we said about the matter.
It wasn't until we'd arrived at our destination, stripped and spent some time naked together that we revisited the topic of nudity. At this time, we both confessed our individual nudist experiences. This brought a chuckle to us both as we realized we could have shared our nudity long before this moment. We agreed to be open with each other from then on. Sealing this pledge with a handshake, it soon became a naked hug (on the beach in front of everyone). As we pulled apart, both of us were semi-erect.
Since that time, we've been a proud, biracial, gay, nudist couple. Together, we've developed a network of gay social nudist friends, both couples and singles. Taking pride in our nudist lives, no longer do we have the need to remain secretive about our preference for living naked as much as possible. There's no point in concealing who we truly are, as a couple or as individuals.
Our body reflects both our gender and our race. It's an essential part of the man that we are. If we indeed feel pride in who and what we are inside, it only stands to reason that we feel the same amount of pride in who we truly are on the outside (our nudity). There is nothing disgusting or shameful about our naked selves.
If nothing else is apparent, our nakedness is a reflection of our confidence and pride in being the man that we really are inside. Our nude body is a gift that we are giving to others. We are allowing others to see us as we truly are, free from hiding behind the false trappings of clothes and status.
Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked
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