2012: Year's End

 

Happy New Year's Eve!

 

It's the end of 2012!

 

Be careful and enjoy the birth of 2013!

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked



Happy Christmas!

 

Best wishes to one and all for a happy Christmas!

 

May your holiday be bright and safe!

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

Last Minute Wish List

 

A ho-ho-ho kind of horny!

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

Attitude

This past weekend, my boyfriend and I met another couple at a local shopping mall just to browse the holiday shoppers (no harm in looking), see what's on sale and for lunch. We'd met this couple at the secret Santa party the previous weekend. They're a biracial pair also and live near us, seemed nice and since we have mutual friends in common, we thought we'd build on what we shared. The hour or so that we hung out together browsing the stores was fun.

Then we decided to grab a meal and share some photos we have from the party we attended the week before. We selected a restaurant within the mall as opposed to the food court. The four of us were hungry and also desired some privacy instead of the open dining area of the fast-food selections. Besides, we have a right to choose where we want to spend our money.

As we approached the restaurant entrance, I noticed our new friends were holding hands. I grabbed the hand of my boyfriend and we did the same. No big deal, it just felt right. We entered the eatery, still manually joined by couple. The hostess greeted us, asked how many then led us to our booth. Her final words to us were, "Enjoy your meal."

Our server appeared with a round of water. A young man, maybe 20 years old, a little on the feminine side and wearing a rainbow flag lapel pin. He greeted us and asked for beverage choices. Our friends sat across the table from us and as one ordered tea for the both of them, he put his arm around the other. That's all, one arm draped over the shoulder of his partner. No kiss, no snuggling just a simple hug that most of us see dozens of couples do on a daily basis and think nothing of it.

When he saw this, the eyes of our waiter narrowed and he looked around. His demeanor changed immediately. It had been friendly and welcoming. It was now perfunctory, uninvolved and distant. There was no longer any eye-contact whatsoever. Almost like a cold front had passed through and the thermometer dropped twenty-some degrees instantly. The big chill.

He returned with our drinks and placed them on our table without a word spoken. Next, he announced that he was ready to take our order. No formalities like "Are you ready to order?" or "Do you need a few minutes to make up your mind?" A plain, simple, "I'm ready for your order." Neutral, no personality and still no eye contact. We ordered, he collected our menus, turned and left. No response of facial expression to our respective "Thank you" as we gave our selection.

This same attitude continued for the entire meal. No check in to see if our lunches were satisfactory. No refills for our iced teas. In fact, after our entrees were served, we never had his attention until he delivered our bill. Not even a dessert offer. Nothing. And still no eye contact.

Our server is gay and so are we. I don't think that was the issue. Is it because we're both biracial couples? That's the sole reason we could collectively conclude. But is that a reason for his disdain or is it inbred prejudice? By the way, the young man is Hispanic/Latino.

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

Gay Secret Santas Party Naked

 

 

"Secret Santa" is the practice of giving gifts anonymously or in secret. No one knows the identity of  the giver or donor. The theory behind this custom is that it's better to give than to receive. This is particularly true during this season of the year and in our troubled economy. There are many who are really having a difficult task of trying to survive on a limited budget. Christmas gifts are a luxury that some are having to forgo.

 

The partner and I are friends with another couple who live in a different area of the state who are making a difference in the lives of kids who live in households in need. On December 8, for the fourth year, they hosted a nude holiday party for their gay friends and in order to attend, each person had to bring a new toy for a child less fortunate.

 

Once all the guests had arrived, we all divided into teams (couples were not permitted to be on the same team). A signal was then given and the teams raced into action. We had to remove our clothes, grab our individual donation and work together to wrap the presents, labelling each gift with a card indicating the age and gender of the intended recipient. The first team to finish won the honor of helping themselves to the refreshment table first, the second team went second, and so on.

 

In other words, we gay nudists were competing as to who could get naked and then cover up presents in the least amount of time. A fun challenge to get all into the holiday mood and at the same time a way for us all to get all involved in the Secret Santa project. Much better than just placing a toy in a collection box and walking away.

 

Once the race was finished, we all went on with our social activities. We joked as to who was too slow getting undressed and who was too anal on the wrapping task. Of course, we all departed content that we'd done our part in making the holiday a little brighter for a child in need. That's what Christmas is supposed to be all about, the joy of giving.

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked   

CockFest 2012!

 

 

In the Chinese calendar, 2012 is a Year of the Cock. Before I say "goodbye" to this special time, I thought it best to host a Festival of Cocks here on Black Lover Naked II. An event honoring the diversity of the manhood of all of us, a CockFest! One final time to celebrate the organ of our masculinity that gives us all so much pleasure and satisfaction.

 

As men, we all understand the function and utility of our individual penis. As gay men, or men who love men, we all  know the amount of delight and desire that our cocks provide our gender. However, by being gay men who constitute the audience of this blog, Black Lover Naked II, we are the ones who appreciate the beauty and the strength of the black cocks that we all adore.

 

 

 

 

We all know the old proverb, "variety is the spice of life." These words of wisdom apply to the symbol of our manhood as well as everything else in our lives. As gay men, I think most of us have a favorite type of cock. However, I don't think many of us would ever turn one away!

 

 





Ever notice just how well a cock is designed? A perfect fit for any mouth or ass! Similarly, this manly organ delivers pleasure no matter what orifice it's inserted. I enjoy servicing my boyfriend and giving to him the pleasure that he deserves. And I love the pleasure that he gives me with his cock! I really think that it takes a man to truly appreciate another man's penis!

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

Holiday Nakation!

The boyfriend and I are two hard-working men who are struggling, just like many others, during these tough economic times. We manage to get by and put a little away in savings. A winter nakation, prime get-away time, is pretty much out of the question. As much as we'd like to experience some sun and surf as a break from the winter doldrums, there are higher priorities in our lives.

Imagine our surprise when last week, an invitation arrived from a friend and his new partner to spend part of the week between Christmas and New Year's Day at their home in Madeira Beach, on the Gulf of Mexico, Florida. For the both of us, this is a dream-come-true. Of course, we wasted no time in replying "yes" to our thoughtful hosts.

These guys have an indoor pool, so it can snow in Florida and this is a nakation to beat all: we don't have to put on clothes from our bedroom all the way to the aqua-playground! Only if we want to go out anywhere do we need to deal with the eternal problem: What to wear? For two men on a tight budget (especially during the holiday season), this is a gift-to-be-remembered.

I've been to their home once, a couple of summers ago. This time will be the first for the boyfriend and I. Two other couples will be guests during the same period. We haven't met either one previously. Given the spirit of the season and the fact that it's an escape from the winter weather, I'm certain we'll all have a great visit.

I'm dreaming of a nude Christmas! I know we'll all make the yuletide gay! Ho-ho-ho!

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

Naturists/Nudists

 

 

In September, 2012, I conducted a poll here asking readers to identify topics that were important. Four voted. All (100%) listed nudity as their primary choice. This posting is the first of many responding to the survey results.

 

Nudity, or naked, is the state of being free or without clothing or covering. Our bodies in their natural skin. It's not concealing ourselves from the visibility of others. Nudity is just us being ourselves, the men that we really are without any cosmetic enhancement. What others see is simply all that there is to see. No false illusions, no games. Being naked is merely not wearing any clothes. That's it.

 

We're born naked. That's how we make our grand entrance into this world. According to the Bible, that's how Adam and Eve lived in the Garden of Eden. And that was supposed to be as close to paradise as you can get in this world. Clothing came into the picture after the serpent, Eve and that apple played out. Garments and being cast out of the Garden of Eden were Divine Retribution for breaking the rules.

 

Nudists, or naturists, are people who prefer to live their lives without clothing as much as possible. Clothes aren't natural, so why bother? They're necessary for protection (warmth) and are a legal requirement in most places, but aside from those two conditions, naturists/nudists are able to perform life functions without the burden and restrictions they offer. Nudists want the freedom that living naked provides. They also want the freedom to live life according to their choice. Naturists or nudists understand the need to obey existing laws but want the same considerations and protections from others to respect their pursuit of happiness in being naked or clothes-free.

 

Most naturists/nudists realize and understand the difference between nudity and sexuality. Whereas nudity can be considered sensual, it isn't the same as sexual. Nudists are naked in part because of their appreciation and respect for the natural or nude body. The human form was created for admiration in the image of the Creator. Nudity is a preference for life free from concealment. It isn't simply about sex. Rather, it's about the beauty of all mankind.

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked