Thursday, January 31, 2013

Good Anytime: Morning, Noon, Night!


Hairy, handsome, hard and huge!

Happy end of January, 2013!

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

Monday, January 28, 2013

Biracial Couples and Friends Resource



The National Association of Black and White Men Together (NABWMT) is an gay men's organization seeking to promote harmony between men of both races, regardless of the type of relationship. The group hopes to bring men to a greater understanding of each other no matter if they are friends, lovers or just concerned gay men who are trying to reach out to create unity.

The group's mission statement reads: "The NABWMT is committed to fostering supportive environments wherein cultural and racial barriers can be overcome."

What makes up the NABWMT? 
"The NABWMT is a collective nationwide network of affiliated and developing chapters in over 30 cities that identify themselves as Black and White Men Together (BWMT), Men of All Colors Together (MACT) or People of All Colors Together (PACT) in keeping with the cultural dynamics of their respective areas.

The national convention: 33rd Annual Convention, Columbus, Ohio, July 9 - 13, 2013
Theme: Still Our Purpose, Still Our Organization, Still Our Pride

Website: http://www.nabwmt.org

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

Actor Colin Black Kisses a white man's cock

Thursday, January 24, 2013

Cum Visit Choklit Daddy's Sketchbook!

Choklit Daddy, a self portrait by Choklit Daddy

A couple of months ago, I brought to your attention the excellent graphics of a fellow blogger and extraordinary artist, Choklit Daddy at Choklit Daddy's Sketchbook. He's my favorite in his artistic genre and I feel that I would be remiss if I didn't offer you, my friends here at Black Lover Naked II, another reminder as to his work. If you haven't checked him out already, please do so. Here's the link to his art site on Blogger.com: http://www.choklitdaddyssketchbook.blogspot.com .

Yes, he does use artistic license with his work, such as in the super-sexy exaggerated nipples and cock above. But, that, at least to me, is what makes his art so appealing. The ability to take the ordinary in our lives and transform it into what we all know we desire, dream and fantasize. It's what we know about ourselves, our passion for the beauty and bounty of the black male. This is, after all, Black Lover Naked II, a blog for those, no matter race or ethnicity, who are appreciative of and attracted to the physical wonders of black men, regardless of their skin tone.   


Above, a black loving man's dream, a double-the-fun creation entitled, Spit-Roasted. 

Here's (below) his blog post from January 7, 2013. A black version of super-bottom porn actor Francois Sagat. This one is named, Pokin' A Porn Star. I urge you all to visit his site regularly.

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

The captions read: white man: "Mmmm...pokin' a porn star by the pool.." the black version of Francois Sagat replies: "Ugh! Harder, Sir! Deeper, Sir! Ah!" 

Correction: Choklit Daddy, the artist has just informed me that Sagat isn't a "black version" but rather olive-skinned. Sorry! 1/27/13

Tuesday, January 22, 2013

Congratulations President Obama!


Barack Hussein Obama,
President of the United States of America

Second Inauguration
January 22, 2013

CONGRATULATIONS! 

Monday, January 21, 2013

Dr. King Day


 
Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
 
Activist, Pacifist, Martyr
Nobel Peace Prize Recipient
Christian Pastor
Husband and Father
January 15, 1929-April 4, 1968
 
"A right delayed is a right denied."
Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
 
Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

Thursday, January 17, 2013

Waking Up To...


Dayum! Old Man Winter has definitely made himself at home and settled in for the long haul. The basis for my unscientific observation? Personal experience. It's cold as hell outside (as if fire and brimstone could ever truly be cold). Along with the lower temperatures come the shorter daylight hours. This combination makes those winter mornings a battle of wills just to even think about getting out of bed and preparing for another day on the job.

That is, of course, unless you are fortunate enough to wake up in the same bed with the man of your dreams. That puts a completely different spin on the entire situation. Love, true love, always manages to make even the most strong-willed of us do some pretty bizarre and unusual things. It melts away our tough guy facade and at the same time, energizes us, fuels our sexual desires and drives us wild with all sorts of uncharacteristic behavior.

Among those strange reactions to being in love is the ease of waking up and anxious to get started with facing the day. Even on those dreary and frosty wee hours of the morning. The excitement and thrill of getting up and then getting it up in the arms of the man sharing our bed! Now, ain't love grand?

Both the anticipation of and the act of satisfying our carnal and physical urges alone are enough to keep us warm and cozy on the cold winter mornings. Then there's the added comfort of cuddling in the strong arms of the man of our dreams as we bask in the afterglow of sexual pleasure. All of a sudden, winter mornings aren't quite as formidable as we once remembered. All of this because of love.

Even among all this bliss there are some things that just aren't right with the world. All this sexual heat does bring come with its' own baggage. That pesky yet harmful issue of global warming is still begging for a solution.

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked


Monday, January 14, 2013

I Assume You Are...



This has happened to me more times than I can count. Not just with my current boyfriend/partner. With most of those in my past, also. I think it's a assumption that most people make when they see a black man and a white man in a loving relationship. They automatically see my man, a black man, as the strong male in our partnership. They see me, a white man, as the weaker male, the passive one, the bitch.

In other words, as the "stronger" man, he's the man. Therefore, he's the "top." He's the one in our relationship who gets his. In a nutshell, he fucks me. There's no possible way he'd ever even entertain the notion of my cock entering his ass. No way in hell! That's the standard assumption made by men (and probably women) of both races.

Of course, they're thinking just the opposite about me. As the white partner, I'm the bottom. The "man-pussy" of our relationship. I give it up to please him and exist solely as his "boy toy." Again, this same judgment is from folks of all genders and races. As the black man, my man has the bigger dick (another stereotype entirely), therefore, I'm the "receiver" of his manhood.

Now, this isn't just the impression of complete strangers and straight people. Surprisingly, it's the same from the gay community and even some of our acquaintances. Apparently, basing our thinking on assumptions and stereotypes has no sexual orientation nor racial prejudice. It's equal all around.

Not that this line of thinking really bothers me. We already are judged because we are a biracial couple. What's one more stereotype? What does get under my naked skin is the fact that most men always approach my boyfriend for decisions first, without even acknowledging my presence. It's as though I have no thoughts to offer and automatically will follow his will. If he's not around, usually the message left with me is, "will, let him know and ask him to get back to me." Again, my opinion is of no consequence. And most of this comes from other gay couples.

Truth be told, my boyfriend and I constitute a partnership. Our decisions are shared equally between us. He rarely, if ever, makes a determination affecting us both without seeking my opinion. And I do the same. Yes, we have our disagreements and have to make concessions. What couple doesn't? 

What's more, we are both a bottom bitch for each other. We "switch-it-up" or flip-flop for each other. Even though, personally, I prefer to be the one to get fucked, he also wants me to fuck him. This reality took some adjustment, mainly on my part, but we've managed to work it out thus far. And if he's too tired to give it to me like I want it, I can always mount him and ride from here to eternity. And the same goes for my man. Neither one of us are comfortable with any one set role sexually. I know from experience that's a part of what keeps our relationship exciting for us both. 

The next time you see a biracial couple, think twice before you assume. Remember how the word is spelled, a-s-s-u-m-e. Things aren't always the way you imagine. 

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked



Thursday, January 10, 2013

Gallery: Ass & Booty I

 
 
One of the aspects of  my anatomy that men often comment on is my ass. Most of my past sexual partners have always remarked that it's what caught their eye. As a nudist, it's always out there for them to see. I'm proud to say that very few are disappointed after we have our casual fling or brief relationship. I know how to make it work to my advantage. It took practice to develop my moves and skills.
 
 
 
If you've read this far, probably many of you have reached the conclusion that I'm a sexual bottom. That's the role that I prefer and usually assume. But I'm primarily an aggressive bottom, I'm not exclusively the one who gets fucked. Occasionally, I do have the need to take the top position and give a man a good pounding. And yes, I do appreciate and respect a nice ass, especially one with some hair decorating both the cheeks and treasure chute.  
 
 
 
 
A hairy ass isn't a requirement for me. If a man's booty is naturally smooth, that's no problem. I find an ass sexy and hot no matter as long as it's natural. And an ass is not just for fucking. I love orally worshipping and servicing my man's booty and I really get aroused and willing when my man offers his tongue to tantalize mine.
 
 
 
Show your pride and bare your ass for the world to admire.

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

Monday, January 7, 2013

A Man's Home Is ...

 
 
We've all often heard the timeless adage: " A man's home is his castle." I doubt that many of us have ever given these words of wisdom a second thought. I know for a fact that I haven't. However, I stumbled upon these photographs that immediately reminded me of that ageless phrase.
 
Granted, the sheer size and bulging muscles of this shaved stud leave no one to wonder about who's in charge of this home. It's obvious that he's a control-type man who's also his own boss. Judging about how pumped and primed he is, it's unlikely any man will challenge his authority, especially not in his residence. He looks to be the master of all that he surveys.
 
In the event there's any lingering question about who's in charge, once he's inside his home, he dons his rightly earned crown. After all, it's his royal prerogative. He's proving to all who enter that indeed, his home is his personal castle. Not only does he have the brawn, he's also got the regalia to support his claim! Long live the king!  
 
Now, not all of us have the crown; however, each of us have the right to the royal title, at least, inside our own four walls and inside our minds. Here's to a majestic 2013 for all!
 
Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked
 


Thursday, January 3, 2013

New Year Resolutions


It's a standing joke among some that all New Year resolutions are made to be broken. Unfortunately, this is sad but true. Just open your eyes and read, most goals for change are broken within the first 45 days; in other words, by Valentine's Day. So why do people even bother to make them?

I think we go through the motions because we really want to change some aspects about ourselves. No difference whether it's weight, smoking, drinking, tardiness, etc. All of us know that there's room for improvement in our lives or a bad habit that needs to be eliminated. None of us are born perfect yet spend a lot of time criticizing others for this failure.

A couple of years back, I recognized this judgmental behavior in myself and vowed to change. The most difficult trait to break was verbalizing my opinions about the negative aspects of others. I can't stop thinking those thoughts but I can stop expressing those thoughts publicly. And I did. After numerous failings, I finally have been able to suppress that impulse at least 95% of the time.

This wasn't an easy task and it didn't happen overnight. Failure was and still is frustrating. Even today, when I slip and pass judgment on another, I get angry at myself and have to renew my vow to cease this type of impulsive and negative behavior. I also have to remember that I'm not perfect and can't be expected to behave as though I am.  I'm only human, after all.

All that I can do when I falter is to keep my goal in focus, promise myself that I will do better and get back "on track." One mistake doesn't mean that I abandon the ideal and return to my old habits. I resolve all over again to end this negative aspect and congratulate me for what I've accomplished so far.

I share this thought here on Black Lover Naked II in the hope that at least one man will read it and be encouraged to make a positive change his life. Realize that all of us will stray at times and when this occurs, don't discard the dream but rather, embrace it again and move on. It isn't an easy process but the confidence that comes from knowing that change is happening gives us the courage to continue to improve. Life is a constant work-in-progress.

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked