April Magnificance

 

The beauty of the month of April, in all its' natural glory!

 

Seasonal Interchange

by Michael Aitken

 

In Winter, when the trees are bare,

We mortals don our winter wear.

 

In Spring, when trees begin to dress,

We mortals then start wearing less.

 

Until, for some, with Summer's heat,

The role reversal is complete!

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

Ship's Ahoy! It's Almost Spring!

 

It's Almost Spring!

 

Start dreaming of naked men and dangling dicks!

 

 

 

Time to explore for research!

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

True Love!

 

Naked lovers: bare, bold and proud.

 

Smile for the camera!

 

Sexy and they both know it!

 

Hearts and bodies united as one!

 

 

 

Sealed with a kiss!

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

Naked + Vacation = Nakation

 

Nakations Are Fun In The Sun!

 

 

Now is the time to plan for those nakations during the playtime known as summer. A season to get outdoors, get out of those clothes and have some good, bare-assed naked fun! As we all know through experience, the warm months pass all too quickly. It's best to plan now rather than waste precious time trying to secure reservations at the last-minute.

Nudity is made for summer. It's the best time of year with all the Black eye-candy hanging loose and swaying boldly and proudly naked all over the beach!

Remember, all those Black men that we love will soon fill the beaches. Get busy and plan now so we can hit the beaches and provide those prodigious Black dicks with our eager and willing tighty-whitey asses to breed and please! You know we're all super-horny during the summer.

Respectfully submitted,

Black Lover Naked

 



Hiking Nude: Beach, Bald, Booty

Early November, for most of us, is an ideal time for hiking naked. The freedom of having your cock and balls swinging between your thighs, unrestricted, is the ultimate sensation of total liberation. Try it and you'll understand exactly what I mean!

For those who are able, I recommend a hike along the beach this time of year. The crowd is minimal and the scenery (especially of the man walking ahead of you) is both sensual and stimulating). Few same gender loving men will argue with me on that point.

Fill up your backpack, get out of your clothes and hit the beach, before it's too late and too cold!

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

Shaved

 

 

I've posted here before of my pride in my nakedness and in my preference for Black men with all their natural body hair (non-groomed, unshaved, non-manscaped). That's me just being me, open and honest about my naked confidence and about one of the aspects about men that I personally find appealing and attractive. It is not a judgment on those who feel differently. To each his own is my philosophy.  

 

 

I don't have a perfectly defined or toned body. I am very skinny (slim) and am not muscular. I only have a moderate amount of body hair. But I do accept my body. I love my body and feel no shame in being the man that I am. All of us have physical imperfections that most of us are unable to change. We are who and what we are. It's that simple.

 

That's the reason I choose to keep my body hair intact and probably why I am attracted to other men who do the same. I want to be with a man who looks like a man and not a prepubescent boy. For me, no type of grooming below my neck!

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked





Autumn Cocks Gallery

 

Like almost all same gender loving (gay, queer) men, I admire and appreciate a nice Black dick. I intentionally use the street slang; penis just sounds just too clinical and impersonal, even though it is the same body part. It's the organ of the male anatomy that clearly represents our masculinity, our manhood. It's a beautiful sight when merely flaccid and just "hanging." When erect and flexed, it's an object of anticipation, awe and wonder. 

 

 

Personally, it's a pleasure to touch and encourage when totally relaxed. I get a thrill of fondling and encouraging its' excitement and growth. I love to tease, stroke and watch it reach maximum potential. That's when I approach it with my lips and mouth to offer my oral services. 

 

I prefer my man with all his natural body-hair. Intact, bushy, untamed. No trimming or manscaping for me. I like my man to look like a man, not a groomed or shaved prepubescent boy. I am a man who enjoys intimacy with another man. Of course, I never turn down a chance to get some shaved Black cock! 

 

 

I love receiving a Black cock, at full salute, outdoors in nature. I willingly give myself, orally and anally, to any Black dick anywhere. But what really turns me on is a responsive Black man answering my desires and passions with his powerful manhood surrounded by the wonders of nature. 

 

And the splendor of his strong manly muscle!

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

Beach Beauties!

 

 

It's been awhile but I'm back. I had a hectic workload and simply haven't had the chance to devote to this blog. Hopefully, all that is past, at least, for now. 

Body Paint Truisms

Some people use paint to create landscapes or portraits of great beauty. Some use them to produce messages that inform or promote. Others, primarily nudists, combine the two, using their beautiful, natural bodies as the canvas. Their bodies also serve as the portrait that the body paint uses to convey its message. 

This young man is sharing his intended wisdom both loud and clear. He is encouraging us to not only rid ourselves of body shame, but also to be proud of our bodies and ourselves. To be proud of our nudity and respect it for the beauty that it is. 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

Gay Secret Santas Party Naked

 

 

"Secret Santa" is the practice of giving gifts anonymously or in secret. No one knows the identity of  the giver or donor. The theory behind this custom is that it's better to give than to receive. This is particularly true during this season of the year and in our troubled economy. There are many who are really having a difficult task of trying to survive on a limited budget. Christmas gifts are a luxury that some are having to forgo.

 

The partner and I are friends with another couple who live in a different area of the state who are making a difference in the lives of kids who live in households in need. On December 8, for the fourth year, they hosted a nude holiday party for their gay friends and in order to attend, each person had to bring a new toy for a child less fortunate.

 

Once all the guests had arrived, we all divided into teams (couples were not permitted to be on the same team). A signal was then given and the teams raced into action. We had to remove our clothes, grab our individual donation and work together to wrap the presents, labelling each gift with a card indicating the age and gender of the intended recipient. The first team to finish won the honor of helping themselves to the refreshment table first, the second team went second, and so on.

 

In other words, we gay nudists were competing as to who could get naked and then cover up presents in the least amount of time. A fun challenge to get all into the holiday mood and at the same time a way for us all to get all involved in the Secret Santa project. Much better than just placing a toy in a collection box and walking away.

 

Once the race was finished, we all went on with our social activities. We joked as to who was too slow getting undressed and who was too anal on the wrapping task. Of course, we all departed content that we'd done our part in making the holiday a little brighter for a child in need. That's what Christmas is supposed to be all about, the joy of giving.

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked   

Mirror, mirror...

After all the stress and tireless rhetoric of the recent presidential election, I think a little fun is order. Now, I confess, I've never masturbated alone in front of a mirror. After all, I already know what I look like completely naked, so the entire exercise, except when in sexual foreplay, is pointless.

 

However, this man obviously is very well endowed, strikingly handsome and muscular. I imagine somewhat on the narcissistic side as well. But then, who can blame him? He's worked long and hard to prime that body of his.

 

As a gay man, I appreciate the naked male body. As a nudist gay man, I admire the male body for the beauty that it offers. Some men think that all nudists are exhibitionists. However, I think they confuse our nudity with what they perceive as exhibitionism instead of the body confidence that it truly represents. Nudism is primarily about body acceptance and pride as opposed to sex and vanity. However, with this man...

 

 

So there's nothing wrong with him having a solo skeet-skeet session on the mirror. Mirror, mirror on the wall. Who's got the heaviest cum load of all?

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

Get Naked But Don't...

Now that we're into the autumn season, many local gay nudist groups host social functions for men who are curious about or interested in exploring the world of gay social nudity. These are usually, but not always, during this time of year as we transition from the hectic pace of summer to the chilling days of the Fall. A perfect opportunity to encourage those men who contemplated nudism during the beach season but didn't exactly know how to try it.

It's a natural reflex for men, once naked in a crowd of others, to reach down to cover their genitals. As a matter of fact, it's a human trait as women do the same to their breasts. I guess it's an effort to conceal the "dangling" body parts. A product of puritanical upbringing and being taught body shame. There is nothing disgusting or ugly about the human body, including those that distinguish our respective genders. A penis (cock) and scrotum (balls) are just as attractive as a six-pack abdomen.

Anyone trying out nudism needs to remember that this innocent gesture immediately makes you the center of attention in a nude setting. Other nude men are letting themselves "hang loose nude" and, more than likely, you are the only one attempting to hide your balls and cock. Nothing will make you stand out in this crowd any faster than this pose. Those experimenting with being naked socially usually don't want this type of notoriety.  Most are a little nervous as it is.

Instead, strike a stance of confidence with your arms and hands by your side or behind your back. It may feel awkward initially; you might have to consciously fight the urge to cover yourself. But it does help you to blend in with the crowd, interact with others and begin to relax. Actually, posing with your limbs by your side or at your back is sending a positive signal through body language that encourages other men to approach you.

That's the reason that you're attending the social to begin with. To meet nudist friends, talk with them about the life as well as make some great new, nude buddies. Be proud of yourself, the man that you are and your manly body! There's no need whatsoever to conceal those masculine jewels!

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

He Is So...

I love this photograph! Personally, there is something sensually (as opposed to sexually) appealing about a nude black man, in a backyard, with only a pair of boots. It captures both my attention and my imagination! I'd like nothing more than to be in that same yard with this man as a playmate.

The boots accentuate his nakedness and highlight the masculinity of his bare body. Obviously, he's comfortable and confident being naked in front of the camera and has no shame of his body. Judging from what I see in this picture, he has every reason and right to be proud of his nudity.

Of course, his prodigious cock and that generous booty he has most definitely enhance his sex appeal. The expression on his face invites attention and suggests his willingness to participate in some mutual playfulness. On second thought, I began this post by addressing his sensual attributes. I now know that I need to comment on his obvious sexual treasures as well.

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

Get Naked!

It's already the end of the month of July. The summer of 2012 is rapidly passing. If you haven't already done so, now is the time to shimmy out of your swimsuit and experience the thrill of strutting around completely naked, at least once, before the cooler temperatures return. Many a man has remarked that once they took off their clothes and tried nudity, they wished they'd done so much earlier. Besides, it's fun being relaxed and totally clothes-free around a group of gay men. It's liberating and it helps build a sense of equality and fraternity.

Why try nudity? Well, for starters: you can do it. There's the freedom of being yourself without having to wear clothes to hide your body. Then there's the experience of hanging loose and openly and allowing the sun and breeze envelope your body. The sensation alone is worth giving being naked a try. What do you have to lose? After all, give it some time and if it's not for you, all you have to do is put your swimsuit back on.

Modest? That's okay, many men are (because we were all taught that naked is evil). When you have some time alone, especially if you're outside, take off your shorts and just enjoy being you without your clothes. Once you're comfortable with your naked body, shyness about your nudity diminishes. Remember, we were all communally naked in the middle and high school locker rooms. The roof didn't collapse on top of us and the world didn't end.

Nervous? Relax, no problem. Most men are a little apprehensive just being nude and doing whatever, whether alone or in a group. Once again, it goes back to being taught that naked is dirty and wrong. Like everything else in life, many are nervous about anything new. Take a deep breath, strip off those clothes and focus on living for a change without having to worry about what you're wearing. Just enjoy you being you, naturally.Remember, it's not your first time nude in front of others; think back to those school-days locker rooms.

Worried about penis size? All men do, so this isn't just you. Even the men with "monster cocks" are afraid of being judged. Keep in mind it isn't the size or thickness of the flaccid (relaxed) cock that matters. It's what we do with our erect (hard) dicks that makes a difference and really counts. Besides, in a crowd of all naked men, our cocks don't look all that different.

Concerned about getting an erection (hard-on)? Hey, it's a natural reaction, especially for a gay man in the company of other gay men. No one gets offended and it really doesn't occur that often. If it does, either roll over onto your stomach until the urge disappears or think about something different. The few times this has happened to me, I simply look the man I'm talking to in the eyes, concentrate on what he's saying and soon the erection goes away.

Taking off your clothes around other naked gay men will probably be among the easiest challenges you'll ever have to face. If anyone skinny-dipped with friends as a kid or a teen, then remember, you've done it once before. Besides, the summertime is the best time of year to try nudity. The weather is both cooperative and conducive to stripping off clothes, particularly if a body of water is nearby. So, ready, set, GO! Off with your clothes!

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

Proud Biracial Nudist Couple

When my boyfriend and I first met and became friends, we were both closeted nudists. I started going to nudists beaches, alone and secretly, for three years before we met. My boyfriend-to-be only for a year (also by himself and on the sly). Funny, while we were "just friends" (for all of six months), we never shared with each other this aspect of our lives. We just didn't know how the other would react to this news.

One weekend afternoon in early spring, we were having lunch together and talking about beach trips for the upcoming summer. Feeling somewhat bold, I casually suggested Gunnison Beach in New Jersey (see May 24, 2012 post). My future boyfriend, without batting an eye, asked if that was the clothing optional beach with a gay section. A little amazed at his knowledge, I said yes, it was. He agreed to go without further comment.

This was to be a one-day excursion, so aside from discussing details about logistics, neither one of us made mention of the nudity aspect. As we were still in the "just friends" phase, until this trip, we'd never seen each other shirtless, much less naked. It wasn't until he was driving us to the beach on the actual date that I mentioned the fact that I'd probably be nude once we arrived. He replied that was cool and he'd do the same.  For the rest of the drive, that was all we said about the matter.

It wasn't until we'd arrived at our destination, stripped and spent some time naked together that we revisited the topic of nudity. At this time, we both confessed our individual nudist experiences. This brought a chuckle to us both as we realized we could have shared our nudity long before this moment. We agreed to be open with each other from then on. Sealing this pledge with a handshake, it soon became a naked hug (on the beach in front of everyone). As we pulled apart, both of us were semi-erect.

Since that time, we've been a proud, biracial,  gay, nudist couple. Together, we've developed a network of gay social nudist friends, both couples and singles. Taking pride in our nudist lives, no longer do we have the need to remain secretive about our preference for living naked as much as possible. There's no point in concealing who we truly are, as a couple or as individuals.

Our body reflects both our gender and our race. It's an essential part of the man that we are. If we indeed feel pride in who and what we are inside, it only stands to reason that we feel the same amount of pride in who we truly are on the outside (our nudity). There is nothing disgusting or shameful about our naked selves.   

If nothing else is apparent, our nakedness is a reflection of our confidence and pride in being the man that we really are inside. Our nude body is a gift that we are giving to others. We are allowing others to see us as we truly are, free from hiding behind the false trappings of clothes and status.

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

Photo Advice

Modern technology is constantly changing the way that we live. One of these advances is the multiple uses of our phones, especially with improved quality and the rising popularity of social networking. Tens of millions are now taking self pictures with their phones and posting these on social sites as well as sending to friends and family everywhere.

Increasingly, gay men are now taking self images of themselves nude. It's no longer as big a deal as it was say, maybe, ten years ago. Slowly, it is becoming more acceptable. As a naturist/nudist, I wholeheartedly welcome this evolution. I also smile to myself whenever I see this. After all, I've been sharing nude photographs of myself for years now.

While what is custom and routine for me is still a novelty for others, I admit that I am enjoying the fruits of this new fashionable trend. I now have acquaintances who volunteer to send me a picture and seconds later, there it is. What the sender neglected to tell me was that the photo is a nude one. Of course, that's no problem whatsoever for me. And yes, I willingly return the favor.

However, I do humbly offer one piece of advice to my fellow amateur self photographers. Next time you feel the urge to take another photo, please, give it a moments thought before you point and shoot. Before you strip and press the button, look around you. Please, clean your room!

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

'Tis The Season...

The Memorial Day holiday is exactly one week away. Memorial Day: the unofficial start of the summer season. 'Tis the season for shirtless men, near-naked or totally naked men. 'Tis the season for beaches, lakes and pools. 'Tis the season for outdoor sports where men shed their shirts while playing hard. It's also the season for the endless complaints; the bitching and the moaning of those who procrastinated about their fitness/health/weight regimens throughout all those winter months.

It never ceases to amaze me. For as long as I can remember (and all through history), the warm vacation and outdoor time of year, a.k.a. summer, follows winter. So why is it, year after year, this reality comes as a complete surprise for some of my gay friends in general and gay nudist friends in particular? This timeline isn't exactly a recent occurrence.

Somehow, the story always manages to remain the same. During Christmastime, all the conversation is inundated with promises of resolutions to get fit, get pumped and drop off those few extra pounds. There's discussion about a certain exercise/fitness class, gym membership, diets, etc. All spiced with a commitment to be in shape for beaches, pools and vacations during the upcoming summer. It makes no difference if the destination is a naturist/nudist beach or if the goal is to squeeze into a new swimsuit, it's all about looking good and getting noticed (and hopefully, into a relationship).

The New Year arrives and slowly, reality begins to dawn. This desired outcome requires more than just dreams and talk. It also involves honest effort. The dedication necessary begins to fade away within days, weeks or, if lucky, it lasts an entire month. Eventually, the resolve evolves into procrastination before disappearing completely out of the picture. Chatter about the upcoming summer season evaporates from topics of discussion.

Finally, mid-May rolls around; it's now time for outings and trips to activities and places where shirts are discarded or social nudity is allowed. Along with it comes the frantic bitching, moaning and screaming about being out of shape. Then there's the "blame game": the fitness class that didn't work, the gym that was too inconvenient or the diet that was worthless. Rarely is there any mention of personal responsibility.  

Puh-leeze! Spare me the instant replay that stays the same, repeatedly, year after year. There were two options available: just do it or don't. The decision was made; get over it and move on. If the concern is really about appearance, instead of complaining, channel that energy into making a change now or shut up. It's not like summer just popped up out of nowhere. May has been on the 2012 calendar since January 1! 

In the meantime, I'm sitting back, naked, and counting the days. 'Tis the season...for me enjoying endless days on a clothing-optional beach! Chillaxing and watching the nude brothers strolling by!

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

Black Leather

Personally, I'm not a man who's really into the leather scene. I'm not being judgemental, it simply doesn't appeal to me. If leather is your choice, then I say go for it!  Whatever floats your boat. We all have our own preferences.

As a social nudist, I don't have much use for leather accessories or garments. There are some nudists who are totally involved into leather accessories. As for me, I'd rather be naked with as little as possible covering my skin. That's just me being me. To each his own.

Yet, I do admit that there is something sensual about a black man decked out in leather gear. The masculinity of the image does appeal to me on the right man, both sexually and visually. Especially if his generous endowment is proudly evident. I just can't help myself; my cock always responds with a salute to its' counterpart.

Leather? It is indeed better than being completely covered in clothing. Now, if a man in leather made me an offer...

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

Beauty Is In...

The old words of wisdom usually hold some truth, and in this instance, I think the photograph and subject are a testament to this. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. In my humble opinion, this man is nothing short of b-e-a-u-t-i-f-u-l. I rest my case! For me, he is the epitome of perfection.

April is the month where we begin the transition from winter into spring. For this time of the year, I'm posting pictures that offer a thought or a message. The simple message that I'm delivering here probably gives an insight into my "fantasy" man: the subject of many dreams. This image represents what I find most appealing in a man. It isn't a shopping list or a wish list. It is by no means an exclusive guideline; there's another wise old saying: Those who discriminate, masturbate.

What attracts me to this image of a man? For starters, he's toned, but not massively bulked. I do like thick men but don't overdo the weight training. Then, there's that shaved head. I love that look. Men with a "chrome dome" have always turned my head and heart.  Next, his bushy arched eyebrows are eye-catching and mysterious. For me, they indicate a naughty-but-nice personality. He may be gentle as a lamb but at the same time, a freak between the sheets.

Those bedroom eyes make my knees go weak. I can't resist their spell. I'm powerless and obey whatever they desire. I'll contort my body into whatever position they need me to be. I find that broad nose a sign of strength, an indication of character. I really have no rational reason to support that thought; I've always found all men's noses interesting and indicative of masculine virtues. Those full lips need no explanation. They're just so damn sexy and inviting. They need no other purpose than to explore every inch of my body. The fact that that handsome face is framed with a trimmed goatee with just the hint of manly beard-stubble is what many call the icing on the cake.

I make no apology and am not secretive about my affection and preference for Black men. That's just me being honest about the man that I am. But, race aside, I always notice a man with a naturally hairy chest. Again, it's been an attraction since I first began looking at men in a sexual context. No matter how dense or sparse the body hair, torso hirsuteness in particular, it's something I automatically notice. I'd like to add here that if a man, any man, is naturally hairless, I also find that sexy. I just prefer my men to be natural, not shaved.

As a naturist/nudist, I'd love to see this man totally naked. Basically, I prefer knowing exactly what I have to work with and/or, knowing what's about to work me. It's my nature to be honest; what is more honest than sharing my nudity? I'm not concealing any aspect of myself. I appreciate and respect the same from others.

Respectfully.
Black Lover Naked

Spring Returns!

Tomorrow, March 20, 2012, marks the return of the spring season. The time of rebirth, rejuvenation and renewal. The hours of daylight grow longer as the temperatures become warmer. The drabness of winter is replaced by the colorful return of natural foliage. The time of the year that many of us welcome with eagerness, hope and joy. We develop a bounce to our step as we tread through our daily routine.  Most, if not all, of us welcome this seasonal change.

Accompanying all this development in the natural world that surrounds us are some stirrings within our bodies. At least, that's the case for me. My heart becomes lighter and my attitude improves. My energy level increases as the adrenaline flow courses through my veins. The testosterone load climbs towards overdrive and my cock begs for some action after a long cold winter. Even as I progress into my early 40s, I feel as though I'm a teenager in heat/lust. The joys of springtime! I feel the itch, the urge, to both be freaky and to get freaky. Spring fever has arrived!

I react to this manifestation in three distinctly different ways. My same gender loving self stares at other men just a little harder and longer. I pay attention once the coats, long sleeves and sweaters are cast aside, climaxing once the shirts are removed and those beautiful masculine torsos and more are revealed. What in the winter would be a casual glance now becomes a look of admiration and invitation, conveying a willingness to involve myself in the traditional rites of spring. Yes, I do get results!

My naturist/nudist persona desires nothing more than to tear off my confining clothes and lay my body bare and free. I avail myself of this opportunity whenever the situation presents itself. Believe me, my nudity is a priority! I relish the feeling of the warm breeze and sunshine bathing my nudity in all natural glory. I love the sensation of my balls and cock swinging loose between my thighs. I savor each minute while nude outside with the sights of the season all around me. Naked in nature; life doesn't get any better.

The man within me wants nothing more than a wild carnal romp with no canopy other than the sky above and Mother Nature surrounding me. I enjoy getting intimate, physical and up-close-and personal with another man, anytime; but, especially outdoors in the spring! I want to caress, feel, hold, smell, taste and touch the body of another man as we release our passion and our manjuices in the intimate way that only two men can. Nature is all the privacy necessary as the sensual explosion culminates in our sexual pleasure. I make certain this happens with frequency and satisfaction as the spring progresses!

The joys of both spring and spring fever! The Lent that is winter bursts forth in the Resurrection of all the beauties of masculinity, nature and nudity that the spring season brings.

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked