June: Pride Month

"Gay Pride, LGBT Pride or simply Pride is the positive stance against discrimination and violence toward lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people to promote their self-affirmation, increase their visibility as a social group, build community and celebrate sexual diversity and gender variance. Pride, as opposed to shame and social stigma, is the predominant outlook that bolsters most LGBT rights movements throughout the world. "   Wikipedia: Gay Pride

Pride Month, which is every June in the USA, is our opportunity to celebrate and honor ourselves and our community. It is our month to remind the larger society that we're here, we contribute to the common good and that our rights as citizens are just as important as are the rights of everyone else within our country. We deserve and expect the same recognition and respect as do all the other cultures that make up these United States.

This is particularly important now, in 2012. As a social entity, we are in the midst of a struggle to secure equality on many different fronts. Foremost is the securing of marriage equality. Next is to combat the violence and bullying directed against LGBT peoples. The passage of the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA), which includes our community as a protected class. Ours is a slow march towards full rights as citizens.

The list of tasks before us are many in order to achieve full equality. So much that some may become disheartened and depressed. However, there is a silver lining inside this cloud. Our support is slowly growing. Public opinion polls now suggest that slightly over one-half of all voters support some type of official recognition of same gender partnerships. President Barack Obama has publicly stated his support of gay marriage. This is the first time a sitting U. S. president has done so. Following this announcement, the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People (NAACP) has done the same. Former Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff and Secretary of State Colin Powell, a prominent figure in the Republican Party, has publicly stated that he has no problem with gay marriage.

This June, Pride Month offers us the chance to celebrate and rejuvenate. Let's use it as a time to honor our accomplishments and our pride in being us. Let's use it as a time to renew ourselves and our energy for the struggles that lie ahead. We've come too far to just give up the cause now.  

Happy LGBT Pride Month!

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked 

Holiday: Memorial Day!

HAPPY MEMORIAL DAY!

Have fun and be safe!

Remember to thank a soldier, especially a gay one,

for their courage and service!

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

Three Day Weekend: Nakation

At last, a three-day weekend and the joyous beginning of the beach season! I'm so excited, I'm extending my three days into five days! I've waited all winter for this holiday; there's no reason for me to waste time sitting in traffic, stressing. When I hit the highway, I want to move along, not stop and start. The only regret that I have about this nakation (naked + vacation = nakation) is that I'm not legally allowed to drive while nude.

Yes, that's right: nakation. I'm planning on being as bare-assed naked as possible for as long as possible. Truth is, I've been packed and ready for this excursion for days now. Packed? What few items of clothing I'm bringing with me, aside from the tank top, jeans shorts and sandals that I'm wearing, all fit neatly into a messenger bag, with room to spare. I'm serious as hell about my nudity!

My BF and I, along with another biracial gay couple, are heading to Gunnison Beach, part of the Sandy Hook component of Gateway National Recreation Area on New Jersey's Atlantic coastline. The recreation area is managed by the National Park Service and Gunnison Beach is the only public nudist beach in the northeastern U.S.A. From Gunnison, one has a terrific view of Brooklyn, New York City, and the Verrazano Bridge. Due to its proximity to the metropolitan area, I know the beach will be swarming with naked gay men. There's even a gayborhood (gay + neighborhood = gayborhood) section of Gunnison Beach that's predominantly same gender loving naturists. I may have to work with heterosexuals but I can play with my own community.

Our lodging accommodations are close to the Sandy Hook area. We plan to spend the bulk of our days clothes-free on the sand and surf. I'm not one to just sit in the sun and bake all day; each couple has their own beach umbrella to offer shade from the sun. Our hotel isn't clothing optional; but, that's no problem. We're all nudists so whenever we're in our room, we'll be nude and comfortable. We've already planned to make this nakation as relaxing as possible.

Last September, we met a black gay couple from Boston, Massachusetts, staying at the same hotel. We've remained in touch and this weekend, their room is beside ours. Plenty of opportunities for nude socializing without even having to leave our hotel's floor. Yes, we're all anticipating a great weekend!  

Sharing a room with another couple in no way impedes our intimacy. We've had similar arrangements as couples and friends for several years now. Neither of us have modesty on our list of priorities and among the four of us, we all have mature attitudes towards sexual activities. Besides, there's something very sensual and thrilling with experiencing passion while soaking in a tub by candlelight should privacy be required. However, previous nakations together have taught us that such precautions aren't always necessary.

In case anyone is interested, additional information on Gunnison Beach is available from the National Park Service website: http://www.nps.gov . Locate the section for the state of New Jersey and scroll to Gateway National Recreation Area. Look for Sandy Hook and then Gunnison Beach.

Have a great three-day weekend! Be alert and stay safe!

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

Sandy Hook aerial view. Gunnison Beach is located on the northern end and is the ONLY nudist beach.



'Tis The Season...

The Memorial Day holiday is exactly one week away. Memorial Day: the unofficial start of the summer season. 'Tis the season for shirtless men, near-naked or totally naked men. 'Tis the season for beaches, lakes and pools. 'Tis the season for outdoor sports where men shed their shirts while playing hard. It's also the season for the endless complaints; the bitching and the moaning of those who procrastinated about their fitness/health/weight regimens throughout all those winter months.

It never ceases to amaze me. For as long as I can remember (and all through history), the warm vacation and outdoor time of year, a.k.a. summer, follows winter. So why is it, year after year, this reality comes as a complete surprise for some of my gay friends in general and gay nudist friends in particular? This timeline isn't exactly a recent occurrence.

Somehow, the story always manages to remain the same. During Christmastime, all the conversation is inundated with promises of resolutions to get fit, get pumped and drop off those few extra pounds. There's discussion about a certain exercise/fitness class, gym membership, diets, etc. All spiced with a commitment to be in shape for beaches, pools and vacations during the upcoming summer. It makes no difference if the destination is a naturist/nudist beach or if the goal is to squeeze into a new swimsuit, it's all about looking good and getting noticed (and hopefully, into a relationship).

The New Year arrives and slowly, reality begins to dawn. This desired outcome requires more than just dreams and talk. It also involves honest effort. The dedication necessary begins to fade away within days, weeks or, if lucky, it lasts an entire month. Eventually, the resolve evolves into procrastination before disappearing completely out of the picture. Chatter about the upcoming summer season evaporates from topics of discussion.

Finally, mid-May rolls around; it's now time for outings and trips to activities and places where shirts are discarded or social nudity is allowed. Along with it comes the frantic bitching, moaning and screaming about being out of shape. Then there's the "blame game": the fitness class that didn't work, the gym that was too inconvenient or the diet that was worthless. Rarely is there any mention of personal responsibility.  

Puh-leeze! Spare me the instant replay that stays the same, repeatedly, year after year. There were two options available: just do it or don't. The decision was made; get over it and move on. If the concern is really about appearance, instead of complaining, channel that energy into making a change now or shut up. It's not like summer just popped up out of nowhere. May has been on the 2012 calendar since January 1! 

In the meantime, I'm sitting back, naked, and counting the days. 'Tis the season...for me enjoying endless days on a clothing-optional beach! Chillaxing and watching the nude brothers strolling by!

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

Basketball TryOuts

While browsing my files, I came across this cartoon. Since we are still in the NBA playoff season, I decided to share it with you here. Truth? This is the type of team tryout that I can really get into! Four men aiming for my ass? Oh boy, fun times to be had by all!

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

Dr. Shaq: Dumb Athlete?

I've often heard many refer to four-time NBA Champion Shaquille O'Neil as a "dumb athlete." Why, I have no idea. The man has obvious basketball skills, evidenced by his 19-year career in professional basketball, all within National Basketball Association franchises. Unless, of course, it is because he is a big, Black man? But then, that doesn't reflect on Mr. O'Neil's intelligence.

Could it be because he was drafted into the NBA court world from Louisiana State University before he graduated? Perhaps. Regardless, Mr. Shaq proved last Saturday, May 5, 2012, exactly what fools these critics indeed are. He was awarded (spelled e-a-r-n-e-d) his doctorate in education from Barry University in Florida. Previously, he had also received his bachelors and his masters, both in education.

Guess who's laughing now?

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

The Ball Scene: Leave It On The Floor

The purpose of this blog wasn't to become a forum for endorsing movies. But, whenever I see one that features a preponderance of sexy black men, I just can't help myself. The reality is that when I discover one that stars openly gay black men, then the temptation is just too great. Leave It On The Floor, currently airing on the Logo TV Network, falls into this category. I've seen it, thoroughly enjoyed it, will watch it again (and again) and don't want you, the reader, to miss this opportunity.

For those who may not know, the ball scene, the ball culture or the ballroom culture are all terms for the underground gay subculture located in almost all urban areas throughout the USA. Members belong to families/houses, based on a particular fashion/style. Participants walk (compete) for trophies at events/competitions known as balls. Hence, the name and the setting for the film, Leave It On The Floor.

The film tells the story of an outsider, Brad, who's been thrown out of his house and onto the cruel streets of Los Angeles after his mother discovers gay porn on his computer. By luck, he stumbles into a ball, a confusing and startling underground gay scene. As Brad gets schooled into the intricacies of the ball world, we're offered an insight into a gay subculture that's often overlooked and unknown outside the Black and Latino homo-universe. Brad's journey is the journey of the movie, to where he will ultimately find home, love and acceptance in this new, most unlikely of places. 

Leave It On The Floor is an independent production that features an almost totally gay cast and crew. That fact alone warrants our support. It's a modern-day contemporary musical that reinforces the message to our young people that it's okay to be gay, transgendered or even to question our sexuality. This is important in light of the recent incidents of bullying and increased violence directed towards same gender loving teens and young adults.  

The movie stars young, talented and virtually performers. Ephraim Sykes (above, left) is Brad and Phillip Evelyn (above, right) is Princess Eminence. Both have leading roles along with Andre Myers as Carter, Brad's ultimate love interest and Miss Barbie-Q as Queef Latina, the house mother. Princess Eminence initially beds Brad, who is eventually won over by Carter. Phillip Evelyn is, in real life, an active participant in the New York City ball scene.

As a background for this movie's plot, is an excellent supporting cast and technical and production crews. The modern music is alive and moving, completely delivering this musical cinema into the lives of our youth. The dancing is a new experience that keeps the show alive with a mixture of both hip-hop and classical. The entire film is a tribute to contemporary gay life told through the tale of the ball world subculture.

Leave It On The Floor is scheduled to air again on the Logo TV Network on May 12, at 1:00 AM (ET) and again on May 28, 12:30 PM (ET). Check with the Logo website to confirm times and dates.

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

NBA Playoffs

For as long as I can remember, I've been an avid basketball fan. I truly am addicted to the game, both as a spectator and as an active participant. I prefer to actually be involved in the competition as a player. When that's not possible, I'm equally content either seated in the bleachers at a live game or watching one of my favorite teams on television. I discussed playing as a child/teen in an earlier posting here (March Madness, 3/12/12).

As an adult, I continue to play hoops. I'm involved in an age appropriate recreation league during the winter season and play neighborhood pick up games throughout the remainder of the year whenever I have the time. From 2004-2009, I participated in a nude adult basketball league until the league folded. Those five years, playing naked, were perhaps the period when I enjoyed the game the most.

Now that the 2012 National Basketball Association (NBA) playoffs are underway, it's no surprise that I'm literally glued to the television nightly. I want to view the competition, the skills, the excitement and, of course, the men. The only item missing from this celebration of both the sport and the players is the regret that they aren't exhibiting their abilities while completely nude. Especially since the NBA is dominated by handsome black athletes. You know, next to swimming, track and wrestling, basketball is the only other major sport where we can admire handsome black men as close to naked as they'll get.

As a consolation, I'm sharing an image of my dream on this site. In the meantime, I'll keep my eyes on the TV screen and watch the action.

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

Shaved

A grown man, in his prime, totally shaved. Not one hair on his beautiful body. Completely naked, too. No garment save the hat that he is removing from his striking bald head. The only adornment left on his handsome body are his ear studs. Studs on a stud: definitely a theme for a sonnet for the poet deep inside us all. There's no doubt in my mind that he's a man for a man.

It's also plain for all to see that this is an intact man; at least, anatomically. His cock, his manhood, the source of his masculinity is hanging there. It's not easy to miss and truth be told, it probably was one of the first appendages that we noticed. Well, maybe I'm the only one who looked there initially. His torso and muscular arms are clearly visible. Then there's his fingers, hands and leg muscles.  Those nipples just beg and plead for my lips to worship them both. And those full lips that are perfect for kissing the same and sucking dick. Yes, he has all that it takes to satisfy another man.

The only hot spot not immediately available for notice is his ass, his man-treasure. However, based on the fitness of his abs, it's safe to assume that source of tasty divinity is equal in proportion to the rest of his physique. Regardless, I'm certain it will not disappoint even the most serious critic.

This man exudes sexiness. I'll gladly welcome him into my bed, couch, dining room table, floor, coffee table, pool, bath or whatever. No questions asked and no resistance offered. He's more than welcome to have all of me, where ever, whenever and however he prefers. No problem. I'm his, anywhere; anytime he desires.

So, is there anything at all missing here? The man is fine, p-h-y-n-e, of that fact there's no question. One little item does bother me, somewhat. Here he is, a grown and handsome example of masculinity and of all that's good and marvelous in this world. Yet he chooses to appear as a prepubescent boy. He's shaved every hair possible off his near-perfect physique.

I understand the hygiene issue surrounding shaving one's body. I am aware it's also a matter of personal preference. It's just that I like my men to look like a man; that includes their natural body hair, no matter how bushy or sparse. After all, I'm a man who loves men and I love them with their naturalness. No matter how hirsute. I enjoy being with a man with all his manly attributes.

Honestly, I've dated and had men who shave themselves. I don't discriminate. However, I'm a man who enjoys a man who's all there: body hair and all!  That's just me being me.

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked