World AIDS Day: December 1, 2012

 

December 1 of every year is World AIDS Day.

 

It is a day set aside to honor, raise awareness and remember.

 

We wear a red ribbon to demonstrate that we care.

 

Please join me and others in showing compassion and concern.

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

 

 

Post-Turkey Day...

 

 

The BF and I spend Thanksgiving with our families, together. We go from one to the other, making a conscious effort to share the love and the time equally between each household. That means one helluva number of turkey sandwiches, salads, and desserts. It seems the four or five days is merely one endless meal after the other, just consumed at different tables with a different family. Truth be told, it may even be the same turkey transported by a secret route between the two residences. I know, quit the moaning and count our blessings.

 

Trust me, we do. Each and every day. We have loving families that accept us as a couple in love. Even though we are the only openly gay couple in each family unit. And we are the only interracial couple in each family unit. We've always been received with open arms. There have been the occasional awkward moments. That's no surprise, it comes with the territory. For the most part, all you can do is laugh and move on. There are those minor tense times in all families, even without the gay and race issues.

 

We both hail from rather large families. When you factor the growing families of siblings, the quarters get fairly crowded. We've offered to go to a nearby hotel and stay. Give our bed and space to the relatives with children. Neither of our sets of parents are amenable to that suggestion. Both pair want all their brood under one roof. End of discussion and pass the pie, please.  

 

The result is always a five night stretch of sharing a cramped house with only a limited, at best, amount of privacy. Nieces in every corner and a nephew or two or half a dozen running in and out of the rooms day and night. A line waiting outside of the bathrooms that rivals those in front of retail businesses on Black Friday. I can describe the scene for another ten paragraphs but I think you get the picture.  

 

Finally, the Thanksgiving holiday is over and we find ourselves back at home. No sooner do we get our luggage into our apartment and the door locked behind us then we rip off our clothes and relax. Peace. Quiet. Privacy. We don't get beyond the living room before we find ourselves involved in one of the most intense and satisfying sessions of passion that days of abstinence allow. Work out all the accumulated stress and tension of almost a week away from carnal opportunity. Relief.

 

Family love is great. Besides, Thanksgiving comes but once a year. Such a small price to pay to spend time with the ones we love.

 

Oh, there's another holiday approaching? Christmas? Easter?

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

I'm Thankful For...Him!

 

Happy Thanksgiving Day, 2012!

 

He has those eyes that give you a look that tells you he knows what he wants and how he's going to get it!

As for myself, I'll gladly give it up to him whenever he needs some!

 

Have a great holiday!

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked



Manhood

 

It's all a matter of taste and preference. There are as many opinions as there are gay men in the entire universe. Probably, we'll never reach a consensus and if we ever did, a significant number of us would take issue. However, I'm going on record here and share my feelings on the matter. Understand I'm not judging anyone, I'm merely expressing my own personal thoughts.

 

I'm just not into this whole manscaping ritual. I understand that some men shave their armpit hair as a hygiene practice. It's just not for me. I know that some men shave their pubic hair because they think it makes their cock appear larger. But when you think about it, the size doesn't change whatsoever. Besides, it's not the size of the flaccid (relaxed) dick that matters. It's what's done with the erect manhood that delivers all the pleasure and satisfaction.

 

When I'm being sexed by a man, I want him to look like a man. Part of that package includes his natural body hair. I realize that not all men are the same; some have sparse body hair and others are hairy as hell. Some men have naturally smooth chests and others have varying degrees of chest hair. It makes no difference to me as to the amount of body fur. What does matter is that what nature has endowed is there and not shaved. It's an element that helps to make a man a man.

 

I'm a man who's physically attracted to men. I have no desire to get busy and do the nasty with a prepubescent youth. When I am intimate with another man, I want those manly reminders of that fact in bed (or wherever) with us once the lovemaking begins. I like the armpit and pubic hairs, both taste, feeling and the visual! I want the whole man, not the cloned version of a smooth body that looks like a plucked chicken.

 

This isn't a judgment on anyone who manscapes. Do your thing and be who you are. That's fine. What I do want to remind others is that it isn't necessarily sexy. There are other men who feel differently. So before you pick up that razor again, think about what you're about to do. Besides, the stubble once the hair starts to grow back hurts!  

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

 

 

 

My Daddy

 

 

I've dated my share of older men. Actually, if I wasn't already so much in love with my boyfriend, I'd cast him overboard and go out and get me one! Just kidding about dumping my man. But, of all the men that I've been intimate with, the best friend, lovers and partners were the older one's. As a matter of fact, two of my former daddies and their current lovers are among the best friends that BF and I have together as a couple.

 

It didn't bother me dating an older man. I refused to let the sly comments bother me. I was with my man by choice and was in no way ashamed. I was proud to be holding hands wherever we went and the pecks and puckers we shared together for no other reason than we simply felt like it. That's part of what being in love is about, right?

 

Initially, I admit to being hesitant and skeptical about dating an older man. I knew he was more experienced than myself and that I might disappoint him in the lovemaking arena. Fortunately, the first daddy to share his bed with me was extremely patient and had no qualms in letting me know exactly what he enjoyed and what I needed to do to satisfy him. Of course, I was an eager, enthusiastic and willing student and soon met the challenge of not only giving him pleasure but also creative in trying new ways to keep him interested and happy.  Even though we're now best of friends and no longer physically intimate, he is one of my closest confidants in all matters sexual.

 

As a naturist/nudist, every one of the daddys I dated were the same. In fact, I first met all of them at nude social functions. Naturally, one of the first parts of their anatomy that I noticed was the size of their cock. Needless to say, I was more than a little intimidated by the thickness and size of their respective manhoods. This was back when I had a minimal experience taking it up my ass as up to that point in my life, I considered myself an exclusive top. I was afraid my tighty-whitey ass wouldn't be able to take all that girth and length. I quickly learned exactly how flexible the sphincter muscles truly are and how much I enjoyed having my prostate massaged to the heights of ecstasy. I fast became adDICKted to daddy-dick!

 

There are advantages to dating an older man. For starters, usually, he's stable and grounded. Aware of what he wants and what he's willing to give. He has both experience and maturity, not just in the bedroom but in life in general. He's comfortable with himself  and is able to express his desires and needs in a rational and reasonable manner. These attributes create stability in the home, the relationship and in the emotional tone the partnership requires in order to survive in the fast-paced world that we all live in. Most recognize and understand the importance of compromise that's essential to building and keeping a couple as a couple.  

 

This doesn't mean that a daddy is perfect. Far from it; none of us are by any way even close to perfection, regardless of age. All of us have shortcomings and baggage. We're human and this is a reality of life. Perhaps it's the older man who acknowledges and accepts this fact that makes him especially appealing as a mate.

 

Personally, I really enjoyed walking hand-in-hand or arm-in-arm along a clothing-optional beach with my daddy. I liked the knowing stares stares we received from others. It was obvious what my man was getting from me and equally plain to see exactly what he was giving to me!

 

Seriously, I have no intention of trading my current boyfriend for all the legendary tea in China. I only am sharing with you here the moral that age does bring some definite treasure to a relationship and to life.

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

 





Veteran's Day

 

Happy Veteran's Day!

 

Thank you to all who served our country in the past!

 

Thank you to all those who serve today!

 

Thank you to our LGBT servicepersons who served while persecuted!

 

Thanks you to our LGBT servicepersons who serve openly today!

 

Thank you President Obama for repealing Don't Ask, Don't Tell!  

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

Mirror, mirror...

After all the stress and tireless rhetoric of the recent presidential election, I think a little fun is order. Now, I confess, I've never masturbated alone in front of a mirror. After all, I already know what I look like completely naked, so the entire exercise, except when in sexual foreplay, is pointless.

 

However, this man obviously is very well endowed, strikingly handsome and muscular. I imagine somewhat on the narcissistic side as well. But then, who can blame him? He's worked long and hard to prime that body of his.

 

As a gay man, I appreciate the naked male body. As a nudist gay man, I admire the male body for the beauty that it offers. Some men think that all nudists are exhibitionists. However, I think they confuse our nudity with what they perceive as exhibitionism instead of the body confidence that it truly represents. Nudism is primarily about body acceptance and pride as opposed to sex and vanity. However, with this man...

 

 

So there's nothing wrong with him having a solo skeet-skeet session on the mirror. Mirror, mirror on the wall. Who's got the heaviest cum load of all?

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

Vote!

 

Tomorrow, November 6, 2012, is election day!

 

I'm casting my vote for the re-election of President Barack Obama!

 

I urge all of you to do the same.

 

The important action is to get out and to vote!

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

 

Almost all states are now requiring voter identification this year for the first time. Please remember to have a photo ID with you when you head out to the polls.

Good Morning!

This is one sight I know for a fact that I will never tire of! Opening my eyes and gazing upwards, to see what is about to welcome my willing ass to a brand new day! Just as the rooster crows "COCK-a-doodle-do" my heart and ass respond: "I do, too!"

Not only does that hard and ready cock need some serious attention. Those firm and beautiful nipples are just begging for some reverent action from my willing tongue! Damn!

I know that some men believe the best part of waking up is the aroma or the taste of coffee in their cup. Not so for me. What I like to see as I awake is the beautiful, strong cock that is about to start my day the right way: carnal pleasure. Personally, a day that begins with sexual satisfaction just somehow seems to go better and smoother than those that don't. Fortunately, my BF thinks the same as me.

Of course, physical intimacy alone doesn't guarantee a successful or pleasant day. We all know that. However, it does help those miserable days seem a little less disappointing and depressing. Sort of like a ray of sunshine in the midst of a dreary, gloomy overcast period.

Here's to all those morning pleasures that can start any day off the right way! No matter what lies ahead or what day of the week it is! Here's to a really good morning!

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked