Get Naked!

It's already the end of the month of July. The summer of 2012 is rapidly passing. If you haven't already done so, now is the time to shimmy out of your swimsuit and experience the thrill of strutting around completely naked, at least once, before the cooler temperatures return. Many a man has remarked that once they took off their clothes and tried nudity, they wished they'd done so much earlier. Besides, it's fun being relaxed and totally clothes-free around a group of gay men. It's liberating and it helps build a sense of equality and fraternity.

Why try nudity? Well, for starters: you can do it. There's the freedom of being yourself without having to wear clothes to hide your body. Then there's the experience of hanging loose and openly and allowing the sun and breeze envelope your body. The sensation alone is worth giving being naked a try. What do you have to lose? After all, give it some time and if it's not for you, all you have to do is put your swimsuit back on.

Modest? That's okay, many men are (because we were all taught that naked is evil). When you have some time alone, especially if you're outside, take off your shorts and just enjoy being you without your clothes. Once you're comfortable with your naked body, shyness about your nudity diminishes. Remember, we were all communally naked in the middle and high school locker rooms. The roof didn't collapse on top of us and the world didn't end.

Nervous? Relax, no problem. Most men are a little apprehensive just being nude and doing whatever, whether alone or in a group. Once again, it goes back to being taught that naked is dirty and wrong. Like everything else in life, many are nervous about anything new. Take a deep breath, strip off those clothes and focus on living for a change without having to worry about what you're wearing. Just enjoy you being you, naturally.Remember, it's not your first time nude in front of others; think back to those school-days locker rooms.

Worried about penis size? All men do, so this isn't just you. Even the men with "monster cocks" are afraid of being judged. Keep in mind it isn't the size or thickness of the flaccid (relaxed) cock that matters. It's what we do with our erect (hard) dicks that makes a difference and really counts. Besides, in a crowd of all naked men, our cocks don't look all that different.

Concerned about getting an erection (hard-on)? Hey, it's a natural reaction, especially for a gay man in the company of other gay men. No one gets offended and it really doesn't occur that often. If it does, either roll over onto your stomach until the urge disappears or think about something different. The few times this has happened to me, I simply look the man I'm talking to in the eyes, concentrate on what he's saying and soon the erection goes away.

Taking off your clothes around other naked gay men will probably be among the easiest challenges you'll ever have to face. If anyone skinny-dipped with friends as a kid or a teen, then remember, you've done it once before. Besides, the summertime is the best time of year to try nudity. The weather is both cooperative and conducive to stripping off clothes, particularly if a body of water is nearby. So, ready, set, GO! Off with your clothes!

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

Gallery: Thick I

Muscles & Ass

This is a new feature that I'm beginning today for Black Lover Naked II. A gallery of some truly fine-looking men, nude, and with obvious generous physical attributes. A gallery post (blog entry) will contain more photographic images than text. It is a visual feast as opposed to a literary one.

The gallery entries will not replace the written articles. There will still be plenty of those. It is just a way to add some spice and variety (as well as eye candy) to my blog. My ultimate aim is to continue to please you, the reader.

The initial gallery focuses on thick men: the beefy ebony samples of masculinity. Some other themes that I'm considering are hairy men, large cocks, juicy asses, nipples, etc. If there's any particular manly feature that you'd like to see, send me an email or post a comment here.

In the meantime, please enjoy Gallery: Thick I, the first installment of the Gallery series.

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

Bald, Beefy & Cock

Massive Chest & Nipples

Summer Chilling!

It's summertime and it's hot. That's what the season is all about. What better way to survive the sizzling heat and humidity than to hang out naked with the boys. Everyone hanging free and natural. Not only is it fun and relaxing, it can also offer some interesting results that can provide immense relief from all our pent-up energy!

For example, check out the dude in the baseball cap stroking the cock of the hairy light-skinned/mixed race man standing next to him. Now, you just know that they're feeling the heat and looking for some type of sexual release. Neither one of them is backing off from the other. We know that nudity isn't about sexual availability. But, when it's hot and you're frisky/horny, being naked with buddies does offer fringe benefits.

As a matter of fact, all these fine men appear to need a little physical action to take their minds off the rising thermometer. Every one of them seems willing to share some and get some satisfaction, orally or anally. Indeed, what's a little skin between friends? As long as it's consensual and safe. After all, we're all grown, mature men with our own set of special needs and desires. So, what's the harm in a bit of friendly man-to-man play?

My boyfriend and I have some buddies that we hang out with on some weekends. We're all nude and understand the ground-rules: no sucking or fucking, just mutual masturbation, nipple play and massages. If there is any kissing, it's only between couples or unattached singles. Before any one cums (ejaculates), they have to take over their individual manipulation. In abiding by these agreements, no relationship is threatened and no one leaves with expectations or hurt feelings. It's all simply harmless fun for every one involved.

If any couples or singles decide to take their play to the next level, it's always done away from the group. All physical intimacy is done in private and once we have dispersed. It's not a free-for-all orgy, but rather, just sexual fun, always safe (no body fluids are exchanged) between close friends.

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked 

A Cock And Ball Study

At first glance, it may seem unremarkable. But, remember we are looking down and at an angle. I think most of us know from experience that looks can be deceiving. It isn't the size of the flaccid cock that we need to be concerned with. It is the pleasure that is delivered by the fully erect cock that we all want and like to feel.

A moderate amount of pubic bush surround these prime jewels of manhood. The balls are indeed tight and a compliment to the mantool. I doubt that few of us would refuse the chance to service and to be serviced by these masculine beauties.

 Same cock and balls as above, just a side view. All of a sudden, from a different angle, the cock doesn't appear as insignificant as originally assumed. Also, note the balls are just begging to be sucked. Looks delicious!

A rear view of those precious jewels dangling low. Now that's what I call a beautiful sight. These deserve my immediate attention as I prepare to give the entire package of cock and balls an evening of delight!

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

Nude Summer Morning!

EARLY SUMMER ELATION

In the early light of a summer morning,

sitting outside and feeling the warming.

Before the sunlight brightens the skies,

rubbing your hand down between your thighs.

Then your notice your manhood rising,

Calling attention to a need arising.

You stroke your cock in response to urges,

Then all of a sudden your manjuice surges.

Physical relief on a summer morn.

Satisfaction even before the day is born.

Early summer elation.

Masturbation!

Black Lover Naked

2012

Sharing A Room: Two

Continued from Thursday, July 5, 2012

Communication and trust are essential when sharing a room with another couple. Both couples need to discuss whatever concerns or issues any of the four individuals involved deem important. Some of these may be guidelines, boundaries and scheduling bedroom privacy for each respective couple. In bringing such topics beforehand, this eliminates any possibility of a misunderstanding later.

It is known that nudity doesn't necessarily imply sexual availability. Having a dialogue regarding this in advance enables both couples to enjoy the time spent together in comfort. It also eliminates any potential misunderstanding between any of the men as to what is fun and flirtatious and what is a sexual advance. This discussion also opens the individuals to the possibility of any polyamorous relationships if all the men are receptive to such.

In establishing lines of communication, the couples are able to convey their respective feelings towards modesty regarding intimacy. Some long-time nudists may be uncomfortable being intimate while others are nearby or able to see. Others simply could care less (such as my boyfriend and myself). In establishing these boundaries, no one is offended by any surprise that may happen during the stay together and such situations can be avoided through respect and mutual consideration.

On a personal note, my boyfriend and I, along with the other couples that we share accommodations, do not all sleep in the same bed. It's nothing prudish or modest, just too cramped. In addition, it can be awkward if one couple is feeling intimate and the other isn't. We always make reservations with two queen/full size beds, at the very least. We find this arrangement the minimally intrusive and most respectful of each other. This works best for us.  

In sharing with you some of our experiences, I hope to open to others the possibility of different options while on a nakation. It is hoped that in doing so, others may learn of an economical solution to surviving these tight times of an uncertain financial situation.

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked  

Holiday Treat: Jumping The Broom

Jensen Atwood (L) and Darryl Stephens (R), stars of "Noah's Arc"

Logo TV's Noah's Arc was and probably will be, for many years to come, one of my all-time favorite TV series. The show was cancelled after only two seasons, and I plan a separate posting about the series later. The conclusion was a full-feature movie: Noah's Arc: Jumping The Broom. When it was released, I bought the DVD back in 2008; but, I never watched the movie. I was saving it for a "special day." Somehow, that day just didn't roll around until last week.

While spending the holiday at Sandy Hook, we discovered that Logo TV was broadcasting Noah's Arc: Jumping The Broom at 6:30 p.m. on July 4. The four of us decided that was worth us leaving the beach early and watching together. And we did. Yes, it was time well spent both in departing the beach and not seeing the live fireworks (not a biggie for me, I've never been a fireworks fan).

For me, it was a treat to watch the movie with my BF (he'd never seen it before, either). The fact that we'd both stayed current with the two seasons of the series meant that we didn't need to constantly explain plot nuances to each other. The couple that shared our room had seen the movie version before but enjoyed it again.

I realized, seeing the old characters perform again, how much I really did like this show. Yes, it was entertainment and not very realistic but it was fun and presented us with the opportunity to laugh at both ourselves and the intricacies of our gay culture. The movie, tying up the loose ends leftover from the series, offered us more of the same. In some ways, it was like revisiting old friends.

Jensen Atwood as Wade, the boyfriend, and Darryl Stephens as Noah, were an interesting couple on the screen. The actors portrayed their respective characters with honesty, originality and sincerity. Seeing this performance on the screen helped me bring some closure to the "friends" I was leaving behind, especially viewing the scenes with my BF and current friends. It was nice to know that, at least, on the world of TV-land, Noah and Wade were happy and together.

Sometimes, in real life, it takes the world of fantasy to guide us through the issues of our own lives.

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

Sharing A Room: One

My boyfriend and I live on respective incomes, but we're by no means well-off. The both of us have middle-level jobs with equivalent salaries. In these difficult financial times, that really doesn't allow for a sizeable amount of disposable funds. In order to give ourselves a reward for trying to live responsibly and debt-free, we economize whenever possible. The result allows us to enjoy time together for several nakations throughout the year.

One of the economies that affords us these small luxuries is sharing hotel rooms when on these nakations. There are only two other couples that we trust enough to do this. Given the enclosed space and the intimacy, we don't want to "put our business" out there for just anyone.  

Since I first wrote about this here, I received several emails from readers asking how do we have sex when sharing one bedroom with another couple. The easiest answer, that we don't have sex when on our nakation, would be a lie. Most couples, in love and healthy, enjoy making love while on trips. That's one of the many ways of keeping a relationship alive and exciting.

Truth is, when having another couple in the same hotel room, it isn't always possible to operate on a schedule: you two have the bedroom from 6:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. and then we'll take the next two hours. Sex just doesn't follow a timed guide. The best sex is usually spontaneous. And physical intimacy can't always be put "on hold" while the other couple finishes their business in the bedroom.

As I mentioned above, this type of arrangement does require a certain amount of trust between the couples involved. Another necessity is the honesty and maturity of the individuals concerned and their attitudes towards sex. Respect for the integrity of each relationship is essential. If all these prerequisites are met, then the sharing of living quarters shouldn't be a problem, at least, not for us.   

One important ingredient present in our particular situation is our practice of nudism. Each one of us, as individuals and then together as two couples, are committed nudists. We have no body shame nor any hang-ups about seeing each other naked. None of us have any false sense of modesty about our natural bodies. We have pride in our nude selves and our nudity as independent couples. We accept our physical imperfections and are proud of ourselves and who we are as naked men. We all understand that our individual and/or collective nakedness is not about sexual availability.

Continued next Thursday, July 12, 2012

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

Happy July 4th!

Happy 4th of July!

Have a great holiday.

Be safe and remember to stay alert and aware.

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked