My boyfriend and I live on respective incomes, but we're by no means well-off. The both of us have middle-level jobs with equivalent salaries. In these difficult financial times, that really doesn't allow for a sizeable amount of disposable funds. In order to give ourselves a reward for trying to live responsibly and debt-free, we economize whenever possible. The result allows us to enjoy time together for several nakations throughout the year.
One of the economies that affords us these small luxuries is sharing hotel rooms when on these nakations. There are only two other couples that we trust enough to do this. Given the enclosed space and the intimacy, we don't want to "put our business" out there for just anyone.
Since I first wrote about this here, I received several emails from readers asking how do we have sex when sharing one bedroom with another couple. The easiest answer, that we don't have sex when on our nakation, would be a lie. Most couples, in love and healthy, enjoy making love while on trips. That's one of the many ways of keeping a relationship alive and exciting.
Truth is, when having another couple in the same hotel room, it isn't always possible to operate on a schedule: you two have the bedroom from 6:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. and then we'll take the next two hours. Sex just doesn't follow a timed guide. The best sex is usually spontaneous. And physical intimacy can't always be put "on hold" while the other couple finishes their business in the bedroom.
As I mentioned above, this type of arrangement does require a certain amount of trust between the couples involved. Another necessity is the honesty and maturity of the individuals concerned and their attitudes towards sex. Respect for the integrity of each relationship is essential. If all these prerequisites are met, then the sharing of living quarters shouldn't be a problem, at least, not for us.
One important ingredient present in our particular situation is our practice of nudism. Each one of us, as individuals and then together as two couples, are committed nudists. We have no body shame nor any hang-ups about seeing each other naked. None of us have any false sense of modesty about our natural bodies. We have pride in our nude selves and our nudity as independent couples. We accept our physical imperfections and are proud of ourselves and who we are as naked men. We all understand that our individual and/or collective nakedness is not about sexual availability.
Continued next Thursday, July 12, 2012
Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked
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