2012: Year's End

 

Happy New Year's Eve!

 

It's the end of 2012!

 

Be careful and enjoy the birth of 2013!

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked



Happy Christmas!

 

Best wishes to one and all for a happy Christmas!

 

May your holiday be bright and safe!

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

Last Minute Wish List

 

A ho-ho-ho kind of horny!

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

Attitude

This past weekend, my boyfriend and I met another couple at a local shopping mall just to browse the holiday shoppers (no harm in looking), see what's on sale and for lunch. We'd met this couple at the secret Santa party the previous weekend. They're a biracial pair also and live near us, seemed nice and since we have mutual friends in common, we thought we'd build on what we shared. The hour or so that we hung out together browsing the stores was fun.

Then we decided to grab a meal and share some photos we have from the party we attended the week before. We selected a restaurant within the mall as opposed to the food court. The four of us were hungry and also desired some privacy instead of the open dining area of the fast-food selections. Besides, we have a right to choose where we want to spend our money.

As we approached the restaurant entrance, I noticed our new friends were holding hands. I grabbed the hand of my boyfriend and we did the same. No big deal, it just felt right. We entered the eatery, still manually joined by couple. The hostess greeted us, asked how many then led us to our booth. Her final words to us were, "Enjoy your meal."

Our server appeared with a round of water. A young man, maybe 20 years old, a little on the feminine side and wearing a rainbow flag lapel pin. He greeted us and asked for beverage choices. Our friends sat across the table from us and as one ordered tea for the both of them, he put his arm around the other. That's all, one arm draped over the shoulder of his partner. No kiss, no snuggling just a simple hug that most of us see dozens of couples do on a daily basis and think nothing of it.

When he saw this, the eyes of our waiter narrowed and he looked around. His demeanor changed immediately. It had been friendly and welcoming. It was now perfunctory, uninvolved and distant. There was no longer any eye-contact whatsoever. Almost like a cold front had passed through and the thermometer dropped twenty-some degrees instantly. The big chill.

He returned with our drinks and placed them on our table without a word spoken. Next, he announced that he was ready to take our order. No formalities like "Are you ready to order?" or "Do you need a few minutes to make up your mind?" A plain, simple, "I'm ready for your order." Neutral, no personality and still no eye contact. We ordered, he collected our menus, turned and left. No response of facial expression to our respective "Thank you" as we gave our selection.

This same attitude continued for the entire meal. No check in to see if our lunches were satisfactory. No refills for our iced teas. In fact, after our entrees were served, we never had his attention until he delivered our bill. Not even a dessert offer. Nothing. And still no eye contact.

Our server is gay and so are we. I don't think that was the issue. Is it because we're both biracial couples? That's the sole reason we could collectively conclude. But is that a reason for his disdain or is it inbred prejudice? By the way, the young man is Hispanic/Latino.

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

Gay Secret Santas Party Naked

 

 

"Secret Santa" is the practice of giving gifts anonymously or in secret. No one knows the identity of  the giver or donor. The theory behind this custom is that it's better to give than to receive. This is particularly true during this season of the year and in our troubled economy. There are many who are really having a difficult task of trying to survive on a limited budget. Christmas gifts are a luxury that some are having to forgo.

 

The partner and I are friends with another couple who live in a different area of the state who are making a difference in the lives of kids who live in households in need. On December 8, for the fourth year, they hosted a nude holiday party for their gay friends and in order to attend, each person had to bring a new toy for a child less fortunate.

 

Once all the guests had arrived, we all divided into teams (couples were not permitted to be on the same team). A signal was then given and the teams raced into action. We had to remove our clothes, grab our individual donation and work together to wrap the presents, labelling each gift with a card indicating the age and gender of the intended recipient. The first team to finish won the honor of helping themselves to the refreshment table first, the second team went second, and so on.

 

In other words, we gay nudists were competing as to who could get naked and then cover up presents in the least amount of time. A fun challenge to get all into the holiday mood and at the same time a way for us all to get all involved in the Secret Santa project. Much better than just placing a toy in a collection box and walking away.

 

Once the race was finished, we all went on with our social activities. We joked as to who was too slow getting undressed and who was too anal on the wrapping task. Of course, we all departed content that we'd done our part in making the holiday a little brighter for a child in need. That's what Christmas is supposed to be all about, the joy of giving.

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked   

CockFest 2012!

 

 

In the Chinese calendar, 2012 is a Year of the Cock. Before I say "goodbye" to this special time, I thought it best to host a Festival of Cocks here on Black Lover Naked II. An event honoring the diversity of the manhood of all of us, a CockFest! One final time to celebrate the organ of our masculinity that gives us all so much pleasure and satisfaction.

 

As men, we all understand the function and utility of our individual penis. As gay men, or men who love men, we all  know the amount of delight and desire that our cocks provide our gender. However, by being gay men who constitute the audience of this blog, Black Lover Naked II, we are the ones who appreciate the beauty and the strength of the black cocks that we all adore.

 

 

 

 

We all know the old proverb, "variety is the spice of life." These words of wisdom apply to the symbol of our manhood as well as everything else in our lives. As gay men, I think most of us have a favorite type of cock. However, I don't think many of us would ever turn one away!

 

 





Ever notice just how well a cock is designed? A perfect fit for any mouth or ass! Similarly, this manly organ delivers pleasure no matter what orifice it's inserted. I enjoy servicing my boyfriend and giving to him the pleasure that he deserves. And I love the pleasure that he gives me with his cock! I really think that it takes a man to truly appreciate another man's penis!

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

Holiday Nakation!

The boyfriend and I are two hard-working men who are struggling, just like many others, during these tough economic times. We manage to get by and put a little away in savings. A winter nakation, prime get-away time, is pretty much out of the question. As much as we'd like to experience some sun and surf as a break from the winter doldrums, there are higher priorities in our lives.

Imagine our surprise when last week, an invitation arrived from a friend and his new partner to spend part of the week between Christmas and New Year's Day at their home in Madeira Beach, on the Gulf of Mexico, Florida. For the both of us, this is a dream-come-true. Of course, we wasted no time in replying "yes" to our thoughtful hosts.

These guys have an indoor pool, so it can snow in Florida and this is a nakation to beat all: we don't have to put on clothes from our bedroom all the way to the aqua-playground! Only if we want to go out anywhere do we need to deal with the eternal problem: What to wear? For two men on a tight budget (especially during the holiday season), this is a gift-to-be-remembered.

I've been to their home once, a couple of summers ago. This time will be the first for the boyfriend and I. Two other couples will be guests during the same period. We haven't met either one previously. Given the spirit of the season and the fact that it's an escape from the winter weather, I'm certain we'll all have a great visit.

I'm dreaming of a nude Christmas! I know we'll all make the yuletide gay! Ho-ho-ho!

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

Naturists/Nudists

 

 

In September, 2012, I conducted a poll here asking readers to identify topics that were important. Four voted. All (100%) listed nudity as their primary choice. This posting is the first of many responding to the survey results.

 

Nudity, or naked, is the state of being free or without clothing or covering. Our bodies in their natural skin. It's not concealing ourselves from the visibility of others. Nudity is just us being ourselves, the men that we really are without any cosmetic enhancement. What others see is simply all that there is to see. No false illusions, no games. Being naked is merely not wearing any clothes. That's it.

 

We're born naked. That's how we make our grand entrance into this world. According to the Bible, that's how Adam and Eve lived in the Garden of Eden. And that was supposed to be as close to paradise as you can get in this world. Clothing came into the picture after the serpent, Eve and that apple played out. Garments and being cast out of the Garden of Eden were Divine Retribution for breaking the rules.

 

Nudists, or naturists, are people who prefer to live their lives without clothing as much as possible. Clothes aren't natural, so why bother? They're necessary for protection (warmth) and are a legal requirement in most places, but aside from those two conditions, naturists/nudists are able to perform life functions without the burden and restrictions they offer. Nudists want the freedom that living naked provides. They also want the freedom to live life according to their choice. Naturists or nudists understand the need to obey existing laws but want the same considerations and protections from others to respect their pursuit of happiness in being naked or clothes-free.

 

Most naturists/nudists realize and understand the difference between nudity and sexuality. Whereas nudity can be considered sensual, it isn't the same as sexual. Nudists are naked in part because of their appreciation and respect for the natural or nude body. The human form was created for admiration in the image of the Creator. Nudity is a preference for life free from concealment. It isn't simply about sex. Rather, it's about the beauty of all mankind.

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked 

World AIDS Day: December 1, 2012

 

December 1 of every year is World AIDS Day.

 

It is a day set aside to honor, raise awareness and remember.

 

We wear a red ribbon to demonstrate that we care.

 

Please join me and others in showing compassion and concern.

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

 

 

Post-Turkey Day...

 

 

The BF and I spend Thanksgiving with our families, together. We go from one to the other, making a conscious effort to share the love and the time equally between each household. That means one helluva number of turkey sandwiches, salads, and desserts. It seems the four or five days is merely one endless meal after the other, just consumed at different tables with a different family. Truth be told, it may even be the same turkey transported by a secret route between the two residences. I know, quit the moaning and count our blessings.

 

Trust me, we do. Each and every day. We have loving families that accept us as a couple in love. Even though we are the only openly gay couple in each family unit. And we are the only interracial couple in each family unit. We've always been received with open arms. There have been the occasional awkward moments. That's no surprise, it comes with the territory. For the most part, all you can do is laugh and move on. There are those minor tense times in all families, even without the gay and race issues.

 

We both hail from rather large families. When you factor the growing families of siblings, the quarters get fairly crowded. We've offered to go to a nearby hotel and stay. Give our bed and space to the relatives with children. Neither of our sets of parents are amenable to that suggestion. Both pair want all their brood under one roof. End of discussion and pass the pie, please.  

 

The result is always a five night stretch of sharing a cramped house with only a limited, at best, amount of privacy. Nieces in every corner and a nephew or two or half a dozen running in and out of the rooms day and night. A line waiting outside of the bathrooms that rivals those in front of retail businesses on Black Friday. I can describe the scene for another ten paragraphs but I think you get the picture.  

 

Finally, the Thanksgiving holiday is over and we find ourselves back at home. No sooner do we get our luggage into our apartment and the door locked behind us then we rip off our clothes and relax. Peace. Quiet. Privacy. We don't get beyond the living room before we find ourselves involved in one of the most intense and satisfying sessions of passion that days of abstinence allow. Work out all the accumulated stress and tension of almost a week away from carnal opportunity. Relief.

 

Family love is great. Besides, Thanksgiving comes but once a year. Such a small price to pay to spend time with the ones we love.

 

Oh, there's another holiday approaching? Christmas? Easter?

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

I'm Thankful For...Him!

 

Happy Thanksgiving Day, 2012!

 

He has those eyes that give you a look that tells you he knows what he wants and how he's going to get it!

As for myself, I'll gladly give it up to him whenever he needs some!

 

Have a great holiday!

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked



Manhood

 

It's all a matter of taste and preference. There are as many opinions as there are gay men in the entire universe. Probably, we'll never reach a consensus and if we ever did, a significant number of us would take issue. However, I'm going on record here and share my feelings on the matter. Understand I'm not judging anyone, I'm merely expressing my own personal thoughts.

 

I'm just not into this whole manscaping ritual. I understand that some men shave their armpit hair as a hygiene practice. It's just not for me. I know that some men shave their pubic hair because they think it makes their cock appear larger. But when you think about it, the size doesn't change whatsoever. Besides, it's not the size of the flaccid (relaxed) dick that matters. It's what's done with the erect manhood that delivers all the pleasure and satisfaction.

 

When I'm being sexed by a man, I want him to look like a man. Part of that package includes his natural body hair. I realize that not all men are the same; some have sparse body hair and others are hairy as hell. Some men have naturally smooth chests and others have varying degrees of chest hair. It makes no difference to me as to the amount of body fur. What does matter is that what nature has endowed is there and not shaved. It's an element that helps to make a man a man.

 

I'm a man who's physically attracted to men. I have no desire to get busy and do the nasty with a prepubescent youth. When I am intimate with another man, I want those manly reminders of that fact in bed (or wherever) with us once the lovemaking begins. I like the armpit and pubic hairs, both taste, feeling and the visual! I want the whole man, not the cloned version of a smooth body that looks like a plucked chicken.

 

This isn't a judgment on anyone who manscapes. Do your thing and be who you are. That's fine. What I do want to remind others is that it isn't necessarily sexy. There are other men who feel differently. So before you pick up that razor again, think about what you're about to do. Besides, the stubble once the hair starts to grow back hurts!  

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

 

 

 

My Daddy

 

 

I've dated my share of older men. Actually, if I wasn't already so much in love with my boyfriend, I'd cast him overboard and go out and get me one! Just kidding about dumping my man. But, of all the men that I've been intimate with, the best friend, lovers and partners were the older one's. As a matter of fact, two of my former daddies and their current lovers are among the best friends that BF and I have together as a couple.

 

It didn't bother me dating an older man. I refused to let the sly comments bother me. I was with my man by choice and was in no way ashamed. I was proud to be holding hands wherever we went and the pecks and puckers we shared together for no other reason than we simply felt like it. That's part of what being in love is about, right?

 

Initially, I admit to being hesitant and skeptical about dating an older man. I knew he was more experienced than myself and that I might disappoint him in the lovemaking arena. Fortunately, the first daddy to share his bed with me was extremely patient and had no qualms in letting me know exactly what he enjoyed and what I needed to do to satisfy him. Of course, I was an eager, enthusiastic and willing student and soon met the challenge of not only giving him pleasure but also creative in trying new ways to keep him interested and happy.  Even though we're now best of friends and no longer physically intimate, he is one of my closest confidants in all matters sexual.

 

As a naturist/nudist, every one of the daddys I dated were the same. In fact, I first met all of them at nude social functions. Naturally, one of the first parts of their anatomy that I noticed was the size of their cock. Needless to say, I was more than a little intimidated by the thickness and size of their respective manhoods. This was back when I had a minimal experience taking it up my ass as up to that point in my life, I considered myself an exclusive top. I was afraid my tighty-whitey ass wouldn't be able to take all that girth and length. I quickly learned exactly how flexible the sphincter muscles truly are and how much I enjoyed having my prostate massaged to the heights of ecstasy. I fast became adDICKted to daddy-dick!

 

There are advantages to dating an older man. For starters, usually, he's stable and grounded. Aware of what he wants and what he's willing to give. He has both experience and maturity, not just in the bedroom but in life in general. He's comfortable with himself  and is able to express his desires and needs in a rational and reasonable manner. These attributes create stability in the home, the relationship and in the emotional tone the partnership requires in order to survive in the fast-paced world that we all live in. Most recognize and understand the importance of compromise that's essential to building and keeping a couple as a couple.  

 

This doesn't mean that a daddy is perfect. Far from it; none of us are by any way even close to perfection, regardless of age. All of us have shortcomings and baggage. We're human and this is a reality of life. Perhaps it's the older man who acknowledges and accepts this fact that makes him especially appealing as a mate.

 

Personally, I really enjoyed walking hand-in-hand or arm-in-arm along a clothing-optional beach with my daddy. I liked the knowing stares stares we received from others. It was obvious what my man was getting from me and equally plain to see exactly what he was giving to me!

 

Seriously, I have no intention of trading my current boyfriend for all the legendary tea in China. I only am sharing with you here the moral that age does bring some definite treasure to a relationship and to life.

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

 





Veteran's Day

 

Happy Veteran's Day!

 

Thank you to all who served our country in the past!

 

Thank you to all those who serve today!

 

Thank you to our LGBT servicepersons who served while persecuted!

 

Thanks you to our LGBT servicepersons who serve openly today!

 

Thank you President Obama for repealing Don't Ask, Don't Tell!  

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

Mirror, mirror...

After all the stress and tireless rhetoric of the recent presidential election, I think a little fun is order. Now, I confess, I've never masturbated alone in front of a mirror. After all, I already know what I look like completely naked, so the entire exercise, except when in sexual foreplay, is pointless.

 

However, this man obviously is very well endowed, strikingly handsome and muscular. I imagine somewhat on the narcissistic side as well. But then, who can blame him? He's worked long and hard to prime that body of his.

 

As a gay man, I appreciate the naked male body. As a nudist gay man, I admire the male body for the beauty that it offers. Some men think that all nudists are exhibitionists. However, I think they confuse our nudity with what they perceive as exhibitionism instead of the body confidence that it truly represents. Nudism is primarily about body acceptance and pride as opposed to sex and vanity. However, with this man...

 

 

So there's nothing wrong with him having a solo skeet-skeet session on the mirror. Mirror, mirror on the wall. Who's got the heaviest cum load of all?

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

Vote!

 

Tomorrow, November 6, 2012, is election day!

 

I'm casting my vote for the re-election of President Barack Obama!

 

I urge all of you to do the same.

 

The important action is to get out and to vote!

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

 

Almost all states are now requiring voter identification this year for the first time. Please remember to have a photo ID with you when you head out to the polls.

Good Morning!

This is one sight I know for a fact that I will never tire of! Opening my eyes and gazing upwards, to see what is about to welcome my willing ass to a brand new day! Just as the rooster crows "COCK-a-doodle-do" my heart and ass respond: "I do, too!"

Not only does that hard and ready cock need some serious attention. Those firm and beautiful nipples are just begging for some reverent action from my willing tongue! Damn!

I know that some men believe the best part of waking up is the aroma or the taste of coffee in their cup. Not so for me. What I like to see as I awake is the beautiful, strong cock that is about to start my day the right way: carnal pleasure. Personally, a day that begins with sexual satisfaction just somehow seems to go better and smoother than those that don't. Fortunately, my BF thinks the same as me.

Of course, physical intimacy alone doesn't guarantee a successful or pleasant day. We all know that. However, it does help those miserable days seem a little less disappointing and depressing. Sort of like a ray of sunshine in the midst of a dreary, gloomy overcast period.

Here's to all those morning pleasures that can start any day off the right way! No matter what lies ahead or what day of the week it is! Here's to a really good morning!

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

Happy Halloween!

Ghosts and goblins don't hold anything over this: a naked pumpkin baking his own pie for Halloween. I wonder if he delivers? I bet he does! By the way, I wouldn't mind a taste of his pie! I just know those cakes are finger-lickin' good!

And his firm nipples just look too-damn succulent!

Be safe and careful! Before you let your special treat deliver his goodies, make sure that he's wearing a latex condom! Have a happy Halloween holiday!

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

Gallery: Tats And Twists I

 

I don't know who he is; I'm unable to find any information on either the model or the photographer. I usually only post photos of nudity here, as I am a practicing nudist and have dedicated this blog to social nudity. However, I saw his images and was immediately attracted to his obvious masculinity and body pride, as represented by his primed and pumped muscles. He's a perfect example of a man's man!

 

 

 

To me, another proof of his respect for both his body and his manhood is the fact that he doesn't try to defile or disguise himself by shaving his body hair. Check his navel: the beginnings of his manly pleasure trail that we all know leads to his pubic bush and the treasure there. He also proudly displays his hairy armpit. He's not ashamed to show off the scar on his upper abdomen. Now, that's confidence!  



 

 

Of course, his eye-candy likeness is only enhanced by his seductive eyes, broad nose, and full lips. Those dreamy nipples look ready to be worshipped and his thickly-veined arms are set to hold his man and love him all night! I'm the first in line to volunteer for that position, all naked and more than willing to give to him my best ASSet!

 

I'm not ignoring those sexy abdomen muscles. It's just that they defy any description anyone can offer! This dude is f-i-n-e!  

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked 

Creative Cockring

I understand the purpose of the cockring: to increase the stamina and performance of the sexual organ during sexual intercourse. I've even worn one at times. To be honest, I never noticed any extra "staying power" when I fucked wearing one. When I was the one fucked by a sexual partner wearing one, I couldn't tell the difference with or without the accessory. To me, a cock is a cock. No implement is going to change that fact. It's the moves used by both men that deliver the satisfaction while fucking or sucking.

This picture caught my eye because of the improvised cockring: string or twine or whatever it's called. That's being creative and resourceful: using what materials are available. I admire the ingenuity and originality. Cool. However, since physicians recommend that a cockring be worn for only about 30 minutes, maximum, I just wonder if the benefits are worth the effort of wrapping the material around the balls and cock. That's got to be time-consuming!

Obviously, this man shaved his pubic hairs. So add to that process to the time it took to apply the string to his genitals and I need to ask myself the question: How did he even keep an erection? I know if I was his sexual partner, I would have masturbated by the time this guy completed his ritual. And, I would have been very disappointed not having that fine cock to satisfy my ass! Why even bother to offer it up for a good, thick dick if I'm only going to be disappointed?

If a cockring works for you, go for it! Do you and what makes you and your man happy! Different strokes for different folks! Both figuratively and literally!

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

Cool Graphic Site: Choklit Daddy

 

 

With this post, I'm beginning a new feature here at Black Lover Naked II. I'm calling it "Sunday Sundae" as that's exactly what it's intended to be: an occasional Sunday posting. Something just a little out of the ordinary from the usual that I share on this site. Sometimes, variety adds a bit of spice to the customary.

 

I stumbled across this new blog-site yesterday, quite by accident. I googled some graphics and was directed here by the search engine. The name is Choklit Daddy's Sketchbook and this is the active link to the site: http://www.choklitdaddyssketchbook.blogspot.com . If you have the time now, I encourage you to check it out. It's refreshing and different.

 

The artist and author, Choklit Daddy, describes his blog as "digital homoerotica and stuff like that there." He's a fifty-something Black gay man living in California and has been involved in digital artistry for just over a year now. His self-portrait is pictured above.

 

The blog consists of posts and art showing, of course, men: in all their glory. Not all the graphics display nudity; but most show an appreciation of the male body and same-sex love. Although most of the art is of white men, black males are also represented.

 

Visit Choklit Daddy's web-blog and decide for yourself. Pictured below is the artist's depiction of President Barack Obama.

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

 



Stand Against GLBT Youth Suicide

 

 

Tomorrow, October 19, 2012, is Spirit Day, observed to raise awareness against LGBT youth bullying and suicide. This campaign is sponsored by GLAAD. It was started as a grassroots effort in 2010 by a teen, Brittany McMillian, who was alarmed by the rise in the number of young people ending their lives over their actual or perceived sexual orientation.

 

People are urged to show their concern over these problems by wearing the color purple as part of their clothing or a purple awareness ribbon. Please join me in taking a stand for our gay youth and against bullying and suicide.

 

Even one LGBT teen suicide is one too many. The same holds true for any teen questioning her/his sexuality and for anyone suffering the isolation and the pain of bullying. This is fast becoming an all-to-familiar situation with our nation's adolescents. The time for this madness and persecution to stop is now! Wear purple. Show that you give a damn!

 

For additional information, visit: http://www.glaad.org .

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

 



Sex In Shoes

Maybe I'm an old-fashioned type of man. When I'm being intimate with a man (my boyfriend, now that we're in a relationship), I want to be completely nude. Not because I'm a nudist (which I am); no, it's because I'm also a romantic and when I'm having sex, I like for us both to be naked. Personally, sex and nudity are like cake and ice cream or soup and sandwich. They were meant to go together.

Now, I've been turned out (both as a top and as a bottom) with several men who prefer their respective sexing (fucking, lovemaking) with their shoes on. Although not my preference, it's really no biggie for me. Personally, it's the action of the cock, regardless of who does the fucking, that's important. Still, I do like to be totally naked.

But, the shoe thing isn't a reason to turn away some good loving. At least, not in my book. Some men have a shoe fetish and that's that. To be honest, some dudes do look too sexy in nothing except a pair of shoes on their feet and a condom on their manhood! That, friends, can definitely be an erotic turn-on!

There is a small drawback to this particular situation. With shoes on, at times it looks like the man that I'm with needs to sprint out the door after he's through with my ass. I understand the classic line, too many asses, too little time, but I do like my man to hang out for a short while after sex! Of course, on the flip side, keeping my sneakers on makes it easier for me to dash out the door! Remember the advice: too many cocks, too little time?

Then again, just maybe keeping the shoes on is the "magic touch" that makes the fucking all that more satisfying for us both. For him, he taps my ass deeper and harder with his thrusts. For me, it makes me hit him back!

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

Get Naked But Don't...

Now that we're into the autumn season, many local gay nudist groups host social functions for men who are curious about or interested in exploring the world of gay social nudity. These are usually, but not always, during this time of year as we transition from the hectic pace of summer to the chilling days of the Fall. A perfect opportunity to encourage those men who contemplated nudism during the beach season but didn't exactly know how to try it.

It's a natural reflex for men, once naked in a crowd of others, to reach down to cover their genitals. As a matter of fact, it's a human trait as women do the same to their breasts. I guess it's an effort to conceal the "dangling" body parts. A product of puritanical upbringing and being taught body shame. There is nothing disgusting or ugly about the human body, including those that distinguish our respective genders. A penis (cock) and scrotum (balls) are just as attractive as a six-pack abdomen.

Anyone trying out nudism needs to remember that this innocent gesture immediately makes you the center of attention in a nude setting. Other nude men are letting themselves "hang loose nude" and, more than likely, you are the only one attempting to hide your balls and cock. Nothing will make you stand out in this crowd any faster than this pose. Those experimenting with being naked socially usually don't want this type of notoriety.  Most are a little nervous as it is.

Instead, strike a stance of confidence with your arms and hands by your side or behind your back. It may feel awkward initially; you might have to consciously fight the urge to cover yourself. But it does help you to blend in with the crowd, interact with others and begin to relax. Actually, posing with your limbs by your side or at your back is sending a positive signal through body language that encourages other men to approach you.

That's the reason that you're attending the social to begin with. To meet nudist friends, talk with them about the life as well as make some great new, nude buddies. Be proud of yourself, the man that you are and your manly body! There's no need whatsoever to conceal those masculine jewels!

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

October: GLBT History Month

 

Every October is observed as Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender (GLBT) History Month. This is a time for us to remember those pioneers of our past who've helped to bring us where we, as a community, are today. A time for us to recall where we were in order to determine where we go from here.

 

I offer the photo of a classic couple from the past in honor of gay history and nudist history. Judging from the hairstyle, this one is probably from the early-to-mid 1960s. There is no further information available on the subjects or the location.

 

For a calendar of those being honored this month and for information on this observance, visit: http://www.lgbthistorymonth.com .This site provides brief biographies of the men and women being featured this year and in past years. This site is sponsored by Equality Forum.

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

 



I Support President Obama!

I'm voting to re-elect our current leader, President Barack Hussein Obama, to a second term in November. I voted for him in 2008 and would do so again in 2016, if it were legally possible. What initially made me support him in 2007, ahead of his official nomination by the Democratic Party, was the fact that he was new, fresh and untainted by the Washington, DC, political environment. The same holds true today.

As our Chief Executive, President Obama has made some decisions that are unpopular with a significant number of Americans. But, the choices that he made were the right ones, made in the interests of equality and fairness. Two examples of these directly impacted our gay community: the end of Don't Ask, Don't Tell (DOMA) and his evolution and finally, his support, of full marriage equality for all. These issues didn't endear him to many; some viewed his support as political suicide. He stood his ground and followed his heart, mind and soul and not some political strategists. I, for one, admire and appreciate his courage.

In 2008, as the Democratic presidential candidate, he promised to reform our health care system. He was elected and suddenly everyone reacted as though he'd just landed here from the planet Mars. "He's going to do what to healthcare?" Hello! Did anyone even listen to what he and his campaign promised to deliver? Despite all the uproar his opponents created, all the falsehoods they circulated, he remained steadfast and kept his promise to the American people. He delivered.

For the past four years, President Obama has demonstrated time and time again that he is a man of honor and integrity. He has tried to keep every promise that he made in 2008. Even when under intense fire from the gay community as he "evolved" towards endorsing marriage equality, he didn't fold under pressure. He didn't lie. He was honest. These are qualities not common in both politics and politicians nowadays.

I am proud to once again support the best candidate: President Barack Hussein Obama!

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

The Vote Results

Allow me to begin by thanking the four readers who took the time to cast their votes on the poll that I posted here over the past week. I appreciate your efforts to support this blog. You four make the effort and time that I give each week worthwhile.

There were four categories to choose from, with multiple votes being permitted. Here are the results:

Nudity/Nudism...............100% (4 votes)

Sex/Sexuality..................25% (1 vote)

Relationships...................50% (2 votes)

Fantasy/Fiction.................0% (0 votes)

Personally, the voting participation was very disappointing. However, I do know that I presented the opportunity to include the feedback from readers. I tried my best.

Respectfully,
Black Lover Naked

One Final Stroke For Summer!

 

 

It's early enough in the autumn season for one last dip into the pool in order to handle one more session of aqua-play! I probably don't need to add that my partner and I swim nude at every available opportunity. Personally, I really enjoy having a good loving intimate workout in the water with my boyfriend.  We've gotten our moves down to a fine science where it's both comfortable and pleasing for the both of us. In order to spice it up and keep it interesting, we each always dive in with a special surprise for the other! Who says practice doesn't make perfect?

 

So that you don't get the wrong idea, we live in an apartment complex that does have a pool. That, however, is for all the residents; it's not for our exclusive use. Our poolside love-making takes place in the backyard pool of a couple we know. We stayed overnight with them four, maybe five, Saturdays this past summer and took advantage of romance around midnight whenever possible.

 

Our aquatic exercises began  innocently as mutual masturbation. Those sessions were satisfying but then, around the July 4th holiday, we decided to take business to the next level. Our first time was somewhat awkward. We were both just a little nervous, not due to our nudity (our hosts are both gay nudists), but, rather, the fact that he was about to fuck me in our friend's pool, in their backyard and just below their bedroom window. The boldness of what we were doing did add to the thrill of the moment!

 

The greatest difficulty of the whole experience was BF getting the condom on while his erection was underwater. The issue was solved when we figured it was better and safer for him to roll the latex on, enter me and then we enter the water. That process worked fine and became standard practice.

 

Now, if you'd like to have a go with aqua-sex in the pool with the man pictured here, there's one requirement. You need to cast your vote on the poll featured here on the right side of your screen. There's one more day left to vote on your preferences for Black Lover Naked II. Bribery? Perhaps!

 

By the way, BF and I are taking off this Saturday night to sleep over with our pool friends. We want to have another pool play session before they winterize their pool. The night air may be a little chilly, but I know we can heat things up!

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

Summer Sunset, 2012

 

 

Summer, 2012, ended officially this past Saturday, September 22, at 10:49 a.m. For me, it was a great one but it passed all too soon. This was the first summer season posting here at Black Lover Naked II, so that was both a challenge and a joy. I really hope that this blog brought to all of you, the readers, at least a few moments of delight and pleasure. It was an enjoyable task for me trying to organize interesting photographs, thoughts and topics.  

 

I've written here many times that summertime is my favorite season of the year. I'm sad to see it depart but, at the same time, I'm looking forward to the arrival of another one next year. I try to keep this focus so that I'll remain positive through the winter months ahead.

 

A gentle reminder to all of you: if you haven't done so already, please help me and cast your vote on the poll located on the right hand side of your screen. The poll will be posted through Friday, September 28. Thank you for your support.

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

Please Vote Here Today!

As a reader here at Black Lover Naked II, I am asking, begging, pleading for your help. As a few of you may have already noticed, there is a poll posted to the right of this blog post. I am requesting that every reader vote. The polling is valid for exactly one week. In advance, I appreciate your support of this blog and your taking the several seconds necessary to cast your vote.

I'm seeking your feedback/input on what you, the reader, enjoy most about Black Lover Naked II. This information will assist me as I plan the blog entries that will be featured here from October, 2012, onwards. My goal is to try to compose something that interests everyone who visits here. If I know what men like the most, I can then respond accordingly.

 

The poll is designed to take less than a minute to complete and is located at the top right-hand corner of your screen (above the rainbow flag). The topics are fairly general but do provide me with information as to what is appealing about this blog. Of course, all votes are confidential. No personal identification or information is needed. The poll is active from today through Friday, September 28. Do me a favor and vote today so you won't forget. Thanks!

 

If anyone wishes to offer any additional feedback, please feel free to use the comments option here. Or you can express yourself via email. The electronic address is: blklvrnkd@gmail.com. I am the only person with access to this mailbox.

 

Once again, I'm grateful for your support of Black Lover Naked II.

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked

View From My Knees

 

 

I know that this is a sight that's familiar to most of us. And, what a beautiful sight it is! Cock and balls hanging right in front of our faces, just begging to be given the attention and service that they so richly deserve. To be honest, with a view like this, I'm powerless to resist!

 

Of course, it's not only the cock and balls on this, or any man, for that matter, that capture my eye. His fit and well-muscled body is definitely one to turn heads and raise excitement between my legs! The thought of being with him and being done by him causes my body to shiver in anticipation and desire! Who can say no to all that?

 

Even though I'm not a fan of a body shaved of all its' natural hair, I can make an exception in this case. His armpit and pubic hair will grow along with my affection for spending as much time as possible between the sheets with this stud!

 

Respectfully,

Black Lover Naked